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if one girl is trying to get you and a very cute guy together and the guy changes the subject does that mean that he likes you or does that mean that he's not interested?

2007-01-02 15:06:03 · 9 answers · asked by sarah l 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If he is shy then he is most likely into you. If he is a outgoing person then (and I have gone though this) he does not like you and finds the situation very awkard. But don't give up there is always some hope.

2007-01-02 15:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by J-Rad 1 · 0 0

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.

Behavior

Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.

Body Language

Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

2007-01-02 15:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0 0

It means he's nervous.

Take it as a compliment. You're so attractive to him that he's afraid to even discuss the possibility of you two going out.

Unless he's obviously out of your league, then he's changing the subject because he doesn't want to get your hopes up. Take this as a compliment as well, it means that despite his lack of interest in you, he's doing his level best not to hurt your feelings.

Why don't you just ask the "one girl" what the situation is? She would probably know.

2007-01-02 15:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0 0

i like a woman for her character so in case you have some muscle that tells me you're looking after your self in case you're clever confident and could carry a communication thats what concerns to me so sure and that i dated a chick with that variety of build as quickly as shes grew to become into incredible in mattress and had a fine looking character some adult adult males the best ones could like muscley curvy ladies 3 out of the 5 skinny ladies with perfect bodies I meet are bitches besides you rock that physique and locate the single for you

2016-11-25 23:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the guy might be shy. dont rely on a middle person. write the guy a note as his friend and try to steer things and get them into the direction of dating.

2007-01-02 15:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0 0

1. Someone who sees the best in you.

If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.

2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.

There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.

3. Someone who watches over you.

You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?

4. Someone to watch you back.

You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you

do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.

5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.

You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.

6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.

When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.

7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you

No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.

8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.

If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.

9. The one who smiles at you and means it.

The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.

The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.

10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.

You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.

Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.

Hope dis will help u........

2007-01-02 15:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

means hes not interested most likely

sorry :(

2007-01-02 15:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by whoseyourkush 2 · 0 0

flirt wit him and see what he does

2007-01-02 15:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by noonie 2 · 0 0

Huh?? Say again??

2007-01-02 15:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0 0

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