at first,him,me & a friend was suppose to hang out together, but in the end, my friend backed out & thus me and him ended up going to the movies together.
i had sooo much fun,but i was sort of reserved and i guess it sort of spoiled things. )=
i wore a spagatti-top that day and when he noticed i was cold at the movies,he put his arms round me and from that moment on, we held hands throughout.it was so sweet
he too dropped me some hints..but i thought he was just being nice..and thought''what if my friend was the one in my place?would they have shared drinks,food,held hand,acted like lovers?would they have more fun?'' and that sort of dampened the mood, he knew something was bothering me and kept asking me, but i kept changing the topic.but now,i realised that i like him.alot.
i tried asking him out again but he's always busy(he needed to work, this i understand)
now i'm really confused,should i tell him i like him,i want to give it a try, but i'm scared of spoiling our friendship
2007-01-02 14:58:38 · 6 answers · asked by s89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally you would drop hints or let him make the first move.
However, in this case he made the first move and you rejected it. Dropping hints will not work because in his mind he likes you but thinks you're not interested. Obviously he likes you and you are MUCH more than a friend. you should flat out tell him "Wanna go out for a date" or "We could be soo much more than friends" He'll get that, and he'll like it!
2007-01-02 15:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT BOTHER HIM ABOUT IT. Continue the relationship as it was going and after a while of seeing you not so into him anymore, he may come back for more, if you get where I'm going. I hate it when certain chicks bother me about that kind of thing, but then when they quit paying attention to me I beat myself up over not taking the bait, if I only got another chance. But dammit I never do. Anyways, go on about your buissiness, if he really cared about you in that way he would find time, but for now he doesn't. I don't care what he did at the movies. That was then, I'm not being mean, just trying to show it to you in my point of view.
2007-01-02 15:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out! Guys love it when girls make the first move.....and if you are true friends, it shouldn't ruin the friendship. Besides, I think he'll accept anyway. Good luck!
2007-01-02 15:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about the next time he say he have to work ask him can u have lunch with him on his break
2007-01-02 15:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes one of 'dem ''townies'' alrighty.
2007-01-02 15:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was stupid the first time...he probably wont be any smarter the next time!!!!!
2007-01-02 15:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋