I met a girl at work, and she has a boyfriend that she has known for about 5 years now, but recently, he hasnt been calling her and hasnt seen her since thanksgiving. when she calls him he sometimes ignores her calls and makes excusses to see her. since then we been spending alot alot of time together, went to new years partywith her parents, been going to movies, watching movies at my house, going to dinner, we been doing alot of things a normal couple would do.. We have had sex 8 times now, and its the best sex that i and she has ever had thats what she told me. Tonight her current boyfriend yelled at her because she wanted to know if he was going to come see her or was he gonna go hang out with his friends like he alwaysdoes and ditch her. I want to tell her to make a choice between me and jerkoff but i dont know how to say it to her. I really like her and i dont want to lose her. Please help me what should i do?
2007-01-02 14:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to keep it cool bro....sounds like you really like her. do not push her, give her some quality time.....invite her to your place and treat her with a nice candle light dinner...she will understand what you really want....and don't think she is gonna cheat on you just because she cheated on her bf....the way i see it its not her fault... he hasn't been giving her enough attention.... we all crave love, attention, care......give her those...give it some time....hang in there....she will be all yours... Cheers.
M. rossi
2007-01-02 22:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by M Rossi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting. Keep waiting. Keep waiting. You can not make her choose and at this point she may still choose the boyfriend, it has been 5 years, and she has not left him yet. She is going through a hard time now, sounds like she has low self esteem or she would have left the loser a long time ago. Remember there are always two sides to every story, and then there is the truth. If she did leave him for you would the fact that she is cheating on him with you bother you down the road? How do you know she wouldnt do the same to you?
2007-01-02 22:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by elle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use "I" statements when you talk to her about it. Say things like " I feel uncomfortable with this situation" and " I feel hurt because" This will help her to let her guard down and keep it from Turning into an argument. Let her know how much you care and that she deserves better which is you. After you have this talk with her I'd give her about a week to break up with him. If she doesn't you should probably think about moving on because you deserve a good relationship too. I hope things work out between the two of you! Best of luck
Bree Olson
2007-01-02 22:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make the choice for her. she has to make the choice, don't push her. if she likes you she Will choose you. for now have fun and treat her well and with the respect you think she deserves. do not mention her b/friend this is a good way of winning someone over
2007-01-02 22:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront her tell her how u feel and that u really like her and want her to end it with her boyfriend so that u 2 can be together......she migh tend up a very happy girl(if u talk to her correctly)
2007-01-02 22:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"tell her to make a choice between me and jerkoff"
see you answered your own question
2007-01-02 22:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by rsist34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you might NEED to lose her. . .she's playing ya boss. . .find youself a single girl who's attention is focused on you.
2007-01-02 22:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by chris 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone she has a boyfriend
2007-01-02 22:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋