ive been dating my gf for a while now, but idk shes just gettin kinda bitchy. when its just us, shes as sweet as hell. but when her friends are around, she just like puts me down an its really getting to me. i still love her, but shes jus being kinda a *****. ive tried talking to her about it, but she totally denies it. please help! this is serious (to me) so i dont want any bull crap answers.
2007-01-02 14:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by himynameisbrandon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, did you tell her it bothers you and ask her if she would like it done to her? She is trying to act big in front of her friends it appears. Just tell her you will not put up with it and leave it at that. Good luck!
2007-01-02 14:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by craftylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to ask her whats up? It honestly sounds like she is very immature or maybe someone has been talking crap about you or she isnt into you anymore. Sounds like she is being disrespectful and trying to impress her friends. Maybe you should just back off from her for awhile and see how she acts. Let her make the move to show you she wants you.
2007-01-02 22:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Sounds like she's doing some posturing for her friends' benefit. Have any of them gone through a breakup lately? Not that it excuses her behaviour towards you, which is pretty repellant, but it might EXPLAIN the behaviour. Honestly, I'd let her know it isn't cool, you're not interested in abuse, and cut her loose if she keeps it up.
2007-01-02 22:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by bcs_boadicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she does that say, "How come you are just real nice until you get around your friends then you become a psycho-bytch from hell and I feel like dumping your a-ss." You see if you let her humiliate you like that she will lose respect for you. So have some balls and put this 'ho in her place
2007-01-02 22:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that maybe she's claiming her territory, meaning that she's letting the other girls know that you are hers and she has you wrapped around her finger. Trust me, I've been married to a woman who's just like that, only mine does it at home also. I know it truly sucks, and if it is bothering you that much, it might be better that you know now instead of later when things would be much harder to walk away from (i.e. marriage, kids, etc.)
2007-01-02 22:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might sound mean, but treat her the way she treats you a front of your friends. make her realize how it feels if she doesn't want to listen to you.
2007-01-02 22:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is prolly just insecure around her freinds dont dump her the feeling of rejection is not a good one
2007-01-02 22:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's trying to show off in front of her friends...it's kind of immature.
2007-01-02 22:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by somegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋