I promised her I wouldn't tell but I'm scared she's going to get into trouble because she's reckless. My boyfriend knows about her man but the rest of her family isnt aware of the guy and won't ever approve.
2007-01-02 14:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you should do whatever you feel is the right decision you should make. I know if it was my daughter, I would want you to say something. You might also try and talk to her and let her know the dangers of sleeping around. Pregnancy is the least of her worries now days. There are diseases that she might contact and never be able to get rid of.
2007-01-02 14:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing I can think of now it is a two steps process: first, tell her that her brother knows and that she needs to tell her family before things go crazy and confront them both to explain to them how do you really feel and how she should tell the rest of the family. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 23:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by laurechery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling your boyfriend and possibly causing more harm then good, try talking to the mother instead. If that is out of the question, talk to your mother, and ask for advice on how you should handle this. Its possible you mother will go with you to talk to your boyfriend mother, or go by herself, then it is not all on you.
2007-01-02 23:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by joy q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you believe truly that she is in complete danger, then yes you should tell, but not to prevent her from doing something reckless. if she makes a mistake then she should have to reap the consequences. take care and good luck.
2007-01-02 22:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason i would say tell is what if something happen like a std and the sister say u knew then u and your boyfriend break up but i would tell her not to tell me nothing else that pertain to that guy
2007-01-02 22:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are concerned for her health/safety then tell her PARENTS, not her brother. Her brother can't do anything to change her behavior. It's not his job, it is however her parents job.
Better give them a heads up on the situation and then butt out of the situation.
2007-01-02 22:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,u tell him. my boyfriend sister was tryna do some like that and he found out and he wooped her. and then told his mom on her.u tell him what she is doing
2007-01-02 22:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Which would be the bigger mistake?
Not telling and taking the chance that she gets hurt - big time.
Telling and........... what?
She gets upset for a while?
Let's see.....................
2007-01-02 22:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by The Watcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have bail money..
2007-01-02 22:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋