Here's the sitch, as briefly as possible: met a guy who was contracted from another province for a temp job here in town. He and I dated while he was here, exclusively although we never actually discussed monogamy. Right after he left I found out I was pregnant; told him, subsequently lost the baby. In a hormonal crash, I foolishly told him I love him, and let him know I wasn't going to pursue him anymore and if we were to talk again, he would have to make the first phone call. He was in a bit of a daze during the whole phone call; can't say as I blame him.
Well, he called tonight to see how I'm doing; we talked for about an hour, and ended the convo with him giving me his address so I can write to him (he has no email *gasp*). He told me that if I hadn't miscarried, he would've made sure the baby and I were 'taken care of'. Do I write to him, keep hoping? I know, this is really immature and silly, but I am just over the moon for him. We both are considering moving for work reasons.
2007-01-02 14:26:23 · 4 answers · asked by bcs_boadicea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I barely had time to get used to the idea of being pregnant, so while it's hard, it could've been a lot worse.
We're both considering moving to the same province for work reasons. Completely different fields, and we both had an interest in doing so before we met.
I feel like a teenager...I keep alternating between thinking he's just being nice, and that maybe he does have strong feelings for me. Ugh...
2007-01-02 14:33:04 · update #1
What's the worst that could happen? If you still like him, and he seems to like you (at the least care about you), then why not write him a letter and give it a shot. See where it takes you.
2007-01-02 14:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have probably scared him off a bit, but if you were pregnant with his baby you will have some sort of bond. I would leave him be for a while and back off, write to him after you've given him some space.
2007-01-02 22:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bout your lose of the baby been there done that and it hurts but dont give up on him yet he seems to like you to so go with the flow and see what happens if its meant to it will just han in there
when you say both considering moving for work reasons to you mean to be closer??
2007-01-02 22:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you're in a good position. You don't have to make any huge decisions yet; just write to him. Enjoy it, and see where it goes!
2007-01-02 22:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by fairygothmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋