Alright, I have this issue on my mind. I really want to hook up with women, I got a cool personality, I'm the quiet type. I need to get out there and have more life. I was wondering if its ok to communicate with women like you would with you were around with your amigos or amigas. Is it okay to just talk about anything? and is it ok if I tease the girl like "you suck breezy" or "you biatch" something like that, and push her / play with her? If I act like myself, wouldn;t they think I'm awkward like "you weirdo"? and oh ya, if women do get comfortable around me, wouldn;t they just push me over? And should I talk alot? maybe I should get my head out of my *** because its been there for so long, i dont know... advices are welcome. thanks
2007-01-02 14:14:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have to worry about this. Follow with whatever is comfortable with you, be yourself, if a girl doesn't like how you are or how you act then she just plain isn't a girl for you. My advice is to stay away from a lot of sarcasm and joking named like "biatch" and sexual things like that...that really isn't how to get a girl. It just shows you that your horny and all you want is sex (which im assuming you want an actual relationship) cause sex you can find anywhere if you look in the right places.
Open yourself up some, remain calm, cool, don't try and impress your buddies or hers. Be yourself. That is key. If you "play" a type a guy a girl "might" like, that is as fake as a girl putting make up on to cover up her imperfections (which really aren't imperfections...just natural beauty right?). I also view that behavior as lying, cause your not being yourself...so..coming from a girls perspective...be calm, be funny, just be you.
2007-01-02 14:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you know who YOU are? It seems if you know how to respect yourself and feel really grounded about how you operate and what your purpose is, you will have no problem socially, even if the response is not great.
You will begin attracting those who want to see the best in you and will encourage you to do so.
Rather than spending time with the ladies, how about spending time with a mentor, one who knows you and respects your best attributes. The right "lady" will come along soon enough and you will be spared much heartache..
Sound reasonable? Happy New Year!
2007-01-02 14:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by NewEnglandLife Mapping 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously im gonna say "just be yourself" but i know from expirience that that just isn't good enough, so let me define it. When you are around them dont act differant than you would around your own friends (unless you punch each other for fun) but try to be kind but not looking like a sissy. Be funny without making fun of other people and just talk to them about yourself but dont only talk about yourself. Ask them about thamselves, sound interested in them...its way easier if you accually are interested. hope that helps.
2007-01-02 14:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by johnny j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have plastic surgery done to makes you look like Brad Pitt. Win lottery or whatever and get that million dollars.
Okay, maybe not. Just be urself..
Be a gentlemen and play nice
2007-01-02 14:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said "you suck breezy" or "you biatch" to me and you were a stranger, I would walk away and not turn back. Don't be trashy.
Getting your head our of your a** sounds reasonable. work on that. Be a gentleman, not a jackass.
2007-01-02 14:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk more without the foul language, ask her out to a movie, for starters. Sometimeime.s thats all you have to do and then one step at a t
2007-01-02 14:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by P_a94 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're funny, Ok look really you have to be yourself. When you find someone who loves the way you are then It'll be great. If you pretend to be something else then you will get REALLY tired of pretending.
2007-01-02 14:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, basically do whatever you like and want to do.
some chicks will get offended and some wont.
the ones who get offended are lame azz biatches and you don't want them anyways. so kick them to the curb.
the ones who don't get offended are cool and those are the ones you keep.
you just talk to all of them like that and sort through the ones you want to keep and the ones who are lame who you want to boot.
say anything you like. if she doesn't like it. fu*k her...
2007-01-02 14:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to be brave and talk to them. make conversation and most of all LISTEN to what they have to say. Make sure they know u care about what they are telling u. thats the best way to go.
2007-01-02 14:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by like being outgoing, and start caring bout what you wear. I f you don't start now, you'll go beyond the point of no return.
2007-01-02 15:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by elpimpinbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋