I met a girl at work, and she has a boyfriend that she has known for about 5 years now, but recently, he hasnt been calling her and hasnt seen her since thanksgiving. when she calls him he sometimes ignores her calls and makes excusses to see her. since then we been spending alot alot of time together, went to new years partywith her parents, been going to movies, watching movies at my house, going to dinner, we been doing alot of things a normal couple would do.. We have had sex 8 times now, and its the best sex that i and she has ever had thats what she told me. Tonight her current boyfriend yelled at her because she wanted to know if he was going to come see her or was he gonna go hang out with his friends like he alwaysdoes and ditch her. I want to tell her to make a choice between me and jerkoff but i dont know how to say it to her. I really like her and i dont want to lose her. Please help me what should i do?
2007-01-02 14:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOUNDS LIKE YOU TWO WOULD MAKE A GREAT COUPLE
GO GET HER
2007-01-02 14:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have taken the position that you are a friend with benefits. To get out of this position and into the one that you would like to have with her you will have to tell her that you are not going to be used to satisfy her needs and wants (including going out) unless she can choose you. Point out to her that you can see this relationship going somewhere if she is along for the journey. Good luck.
2007-01-02 22:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋