we just got back together like two days ago. the promblem is he doesnt trust me. he said it is because of what people are saying.people are saying that i am too smart , too pretty and why cant i go out with someone in my own race. he is white i am black.
i find out that he has like 2 girlfriend on the side. he told me he was afraid that one day i will broke up with him and he doesnt want to end up with nobody. i love him and he love me. i always told him that i didnt want anybody but him, i guess he doesnt belive me. i cant be with him if he doesnt trust me. hat should i do
2007-01-02 13:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by tibit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should you do?
Wake up and smell the coffee!
He's screwing two other women and lying to you!
Dump him and look for a new guy.
And by the way, race doesn't matter. It would be the same old story if you were Chinese and he was Korean.
2007-01-02 14:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he have 2 girlfriend on the side?? Girl, in a relationship it is only shared by two people and yet he have three girls incuding you.. You need to get out of this relationship.. It is about power and th ability to control a person.. He doesn't love you but love himself.. He is selfish
2007-01-02 22:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if he has 2 girlfrineds on the side then thats telling you something hes to afriad to take the risk and commit him self to you you deffinatly deserve better than that and he shouldnt go on what other people are sayin if hes with u then he should be with you for you not what other people are sayin you need to move on sweetie i know you love him and it will be hard you should be the one who cant trust him you need to give him the ultimatum either he wants to be with you or he doesnt when one door closes another one opens trust me
2007-01-02 22:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get this straight now. if you prove to him you are for him and don't want anyone else thru your actions you do this with your ways you are to him forget race age religion and other acts fo prejudice crap. Forget what people say to they are not you they do not have your connection to this man or your heart. No one can tell you who to love like etc. if it is meant to be have faith.. tell him baby i prove to you thru my actions and heart i love you if you cannot trust me then there is no US.. you and he can have doubts as many couple do as they get closer as they are getting in deeper emotion wise and neither of you want to be hurt or torn apart. so as time goes trust comes. F the rest of the world. tell him don't play into Satan's hands for believing people go with the feelings when your together.. this is real
2007-01-02 22:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get that you love him but the best thing you can do is get rid of him as nobody can profess love to another person and have other people on the side you are asking for heartbreak and most inportantly you may miss out on someone wonderful while wasting your time.good luck
2007-01-02 22:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 2 other girlfriends & he can't trust YOU. Honey he's laying a guilt trip on YOU to make him the poor little victim here so you'll feel sorry and pet him. Men work on our emotional side because they know they can. Drop him & please go get tested
2007-01-02 22:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by mindy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll i think both of you should really sit and talk
i mean him having two other girls well thats messed uup
whou cares what other people say i dont think you guys love each other like you say you do
2007-01-02 22:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him that is cheating maybe he will learn his mistakes if you told the others that he was cheating and then he would have no one anywayz!!!
2007-01-02 22:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get in a fight with somebody, they forget about it the next day, the same day.
2007-01-02 22:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Phil Connors 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dumb him he was cheating so dumb him or make him jealous by goin out with som 1 else
2007-01-02 22:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine.morales2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋