My boyfriend lives about an hour and a half away from me and he would really like for me to move closer to him. I have been lookin for a job closer to him and I have now been offered one, but i am scared that i am goin to get moved down there and not no anyone besides him. I really want to be closer to him but i don't know if i should. Im also afraid that he is goin to want to move himself and his daughter into my house which im def. not ready for.
2007-01-02 13:58:58 · 5 answers · asked by lilmomma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like you need to have an enlightening discussion before you do anything and tell him your concerns. Put your cards on the table. Better to get the wrinkles out now then after you make a move. Unless you are hoping this may lead to a lasting relationship,why would you want to move ? Stay in control of your situation, give it lots of thought and prayer and listen to your gut feeling. The heart is so fragile ! Good Luck to you !!
2007-01-02 14:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that many questions about him, stay put. Also, it almost sounds like he is setting you up for moving into your house, which means he might be a freeloader. An hour and a half is not a bad commute, unless you have to through a city. If you have a vacation, stay at his place for a few days in a row and see how that goes first, while he has to work. If he is uncomfortable with you being at his place while he is working, then he definitely is not for you. Moving for someone, or moving in with them is a huge step. If you can't trust each other, then the relationship will ultimately fail.
2007-01-02 22:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by kevsnow00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would be glad to move in with him as soon you guys are married! Then he has to commit and have obligaitions to be a husband and you as a wife!
I would not move in without being married and with his daughter in the home is not a proper role model that you set your self to be, Are you ready to be the child stepmom and be involved with the ex the rest of your life?
2007-01-02 22:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should move then do it. If you don`t want him to move in with you then just tell him yiur no ready for that yet
2007-01-02 22:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he deserves your love then he deserves your honesty.
please tell him how u feel upfront
2007-01-02 22:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋