2007-01-02 13:55:41 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was bad timing? But now they are back.
2007-01-02 14:06:01 · update #1
I already did take him back, but i was just wondering what people thought about the whole idea of taking back ex's. He broke up with me because he didn't think it was fair for me to wait for him, because he's in the army. He came home for christmas, and we talked everything out, and we are now back together.
2007-01-02 14:10:20 · update #2
There is nothing wrong with taking back an ex if you are truly in love with him, but you also need to be true to yourself and decide if you really want him back or not. Can you be truly happy with him? No one can answer that question but you.
2007-01-02 14:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I normally would say yes, it is wrong to take back an ex, but not anymore. If I didn't take back my mean ex I would have never met my soulmate. this is true. But the first week or so back with my ex was horrible. We both knew our past, and it was impossible to get over. But this is just my scenario, yours could be entirely different. Good luck with your decision.
2007-01-02 21:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have broken up with the guy once already, you know there are issues between the two of you that you are unable to resolve. Getting back together would send a message to the guy that you willing to sweep your own needs under the rug in favor of his needs. When he finds that out, he will know he has power over you and he will use that power every chance he gets, to your misery.Keep ex'es ex'es!
2007-01-02 22:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by mokermaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the ex, why yall broke up, and what he is willing
to do to win you back. make it hard for him. if you automatically
just say "okay".. then he will think that he can dump you all the
time you you will come running back. start out as friends. and
act like the past never happend. dont keep bringing it up saying
"why".. it will just annoy him, and he will leave again
hope this helped..
happy new year.
2007-01-02 22:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the break up was because he cheated, then no, don't, because there is a love loss there, better to cut your losses, & move on, if the break up was because the two of you were just young & immature, then if you think that you have matured since then, then I would say that it would never hurt anything to give it a whirl. so really a break up reconciliation would depend on if it was a good or bad first go around ending..
2007-01-02 22:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your circumstances. It is wrong only if you two are in another relationship now or married to someone new, besides that if you two want to make another whirl of it you know the history and where you went wrong before, only you can answer this question.
2007-01-02 22:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by sweetitalianyank5000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you broke off because he's a jerk than yes, it is "wrong". But if its because after breaking up for other reasons and you realize you really miss him and that it was a mistake than I think you should get back with him. But think carefully about it aite?
Good luck! =)
2007-01-02 22:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin Please listen to me.. taking back an ex isnt always bad! If he did something very bad liek cheated on you do not take him back girl...but if you guys just broke up because the spark wasn't there anymore than yea chicka go for it! haha
2007-01-02 22:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin exs are exs for a reason. This is a new year! Move forward not backwards! Good luck!
2007-01-02 21:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by flirt6angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 03:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋