i met this new guy with my friend a couple of weeks ago. hes really nice and stuff and i just want someone to hang with and maybe have something more? hes cute and really flirty but a couple of nights ago he hooked up [like madeout] with this girl that goes to his school when he was drunk and he called me after. i dont really know what to think. i love talking to him because hes so funny and nice. ive only hung out with him twice but he keeps saying that when he gets back in town he wants to hang out. ive been talking to him soo much and i keep wanting to talk to him on the phone more what is he saying? does he just like to hang out with me or anything else? thanks in advance!
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2007-01-02 13:44:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he likes you and respects you enough to let you know he drunkenly made out with another girl before you heard it from someone else.
Take your time, get to know him better and let the friendship go where it may.
2007-01-02 13:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few details I don't know about, for example, age, do you know the kinds of people he hangs out with, etc.
But going from what I read, I would just say take it easy. Spend time with him to get to know him better. I wouldn't start thinking about the future just yet. The drinking factor and kissing the other girl and then calling you might not be a good sign. Just keep things simple and remember that your happiness is most important. If you are in school, also try to remember that you don't need any drama in your life right now. Guys will come and go. School is too expensive to do it all over again. Try to not let your feelings get in the way and think things through before going in head first. I wish you the best. Let me know how it goes for ya!
2007-01-02 14:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well basically i think that you just THINK you like this guy but you don't maybe all you see in this guy is the fact that you wish a guy would be like this one...i think you are just looking in his features that you wish your own guy had (or the future guy your looking for)...i mean he may sound like a nice guy and all but NOT all is about his personality...there is more to guys than that trust me...and if he likes drinking and partying you have to as yourself DO I REALLY WANT A GUY LIKE THIS?? NEW GIRLS?? PARTYING?? you have to think i guess you two can be friends...but then again once a bad guy ALWAYS a bad guy(sorry but TRUE)well lets just hope this can help you out a bit...
2007-01-02 13:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. ARRiOJA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants to hang out. Depending on how much you do with him physically, he may enjoy what you provide in that way, too.
Since he is enjoying the company and attributes of others, though, I don't think you can count on him for anything serious.
Enjoy his company if you want, but don't expect anything from him. He is still shopping or just playing.
2007-01-02 13:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by brightpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i under stand what he may be thinking, his only trying to be frendly, because you maybe cute and a good dancer, he disn,t mean any harm, he jest what to hang out with you because he see,s some thing cool about you. or your voice sounds very nice, but he don,t what to date you because he,s feelings are stronger for this other girl, so relax unless he asked to kiss you, it,s only he,s way of being friendly, because there is something in his gut that needs to flurt with other girls.
2007-01-02 13:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just wanted to be friends; why would he call. If you didn't have any feelings for you; then why would he keep coming back. If he didn't think something might be there;then why does he try to see you?
think about that.
2007-01-02 13:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Miranda;x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a looser he will go as far as you let him so be in control of the situation. if you decide to be with him know that he will not change and will probably make out with some other chick behind your back. be prepared
2007-01-02 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by yadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wanted to make you jelouse. In your case play hard to get. not clingy.
2007-01-02 13:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by lilmis_94cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to go where no man has gone before, dump him
2007-01-02 13:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE A PLAYER
2007-01-02 13:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋