Okay so i've really reallyy liked this guy for a while now...
my friends say they think he likes me but i don't think he does. everytime someone asked him if he liked me he said "as a friend".
:[.everytime i try giving up on the guy that i reallyyy like,
i see him again and i start liking him again...
I don't want to give up on him but there's this other guy that likes me and he's really cool and cute and funnny.
What can i do??
HELLPPP!!!
2007-01-02 13:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with the new guy and have fun. You aren't getting married, it's just a date. From the sounds of it, there is no committment between you and the first guy, so what are you hanging on for?
2007-01-02 13:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to give only part of yourself to this other potential love interest because you're in love with the first guy. It wouldn't be fair to you to settle, and wouldn't be fair to him feeling like he's your second choice.
However, it's not the end of the world to go out and get to know this second guy better. Who knows? Maybe he's the right one for you and you'll end up finding him more attractive once you get to talking. There's much to be said about great personality over just looks.
ON THE OTHER HAND, I can tell you really like the 1st guy and it's hard to give that up. And you may very well be right in not doing so. Is this guy you like shy? Maybe he says he likes you as "just a friend" because he's afraid of you knowing about his true feelings and rejecting him. Give it time, get to know Mr. Amazing better, and see what happens.
In the meantime, don't pass up the opportunity to get to know the second guy. He might just turn out to be great.
Good Luck :)
2007-01-02 13:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that take that opportunity and go with the second guy. maybe he is thinking about some other girl too and that is why he doesn't reject or accept it. he says just a friend to get away with it for now.you always have him some where. you don't lose him
2007-01-02 13:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve got your whole life ahead of you try things out with this other guy he seems to like try and see what happens if its meant to be between yo and the other guy it will just remember as one door closes another one opens just relaxe take it easy and hav fun what is meant to happen will in good time
2007-01-02 13:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't give up maybe he doesn't but for now just pretent you like him as a friend play the hard to get role it always works!!!
2007-01-02 13:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind the guy who likes you as a friend only. focus to the other guy that likes you and so cool,maybe you can have a good time with him
2007-01-02 13:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the real thing.Go with the one that likes you spend his money ride in his car make the one YOU like jealous then go with him.
2007-01-02 13:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well geez....dont settle for sum1 who u dont like as much...YOU need to go up 2 your friend and ask him if he likes you...bcuz he prolly is just telln your friends that he just sees u as a "friend" to save face...but if he does tell u that he jus sees u as a friend then it wud b best for u to just move on....
2007-01-02 13:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for what you've got not the dream of another....I've been there just out of reach but can't let go will go insane if you don't....
2007-01-02 13:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you should go with the guy that likes you, because you might regret waiting on someone else and losing something that might become special.
2007-01-02 13:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋