I've only kissed three men and slept with two and I'm 21 yrs old....Is that alot of guys for my age?......Am I considered slutty?
2007-01-02 13:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're fine. I'd say that is average to below average.
2007-01-02 13:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slutty is not so much determined by a number of partners as it is the circumstances. Were all three kisses and both sex partners in one night? Prob not. So based on the fact that there have only been two and you are out of high school (and almost out of college if you are going) I'd say you are doing well. No title of slut for you.
2007-01-02 21:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is actually a good number. I have a friend who by the time she was 21 had slept with over 10 guys! so no. 2 guy's by the age of 21 is nothing my dear.
2007-01-02 21:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a lot but....
were the guys worth it? many girls are curious to try sex. many girls are dissapointed with the outcome when they do. if your body needs lovin try a massage.
having sex with a member of the opposite sex may lead to a child. are your prospective sex partners the ones you want to spend your life raising kids with?
i don't know if you come from a happy family or not but i am sure you would want one for your child. if you don't care about your future children or are infertile go ahead and have sex with as many guys as you want. but if you want something really special for your husband and your children you will wait until you have found a consenting life partner who you believe will be there for you and your children.
2007-01-02 21:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, that's not a lot, but I would recommend kissing more guys than you sleep with. Hmmm... that doesn't sound quite right, but I think I'm trying to say, you don't have to sleep with every guy you kiss.
2007-01-02 21:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The phrase is "a lot" (2 words) and no...that is not excessive...however, it's also your business and no one else's. It doesn't matter how many guys you have sex with or kiss, just make sure you protect yourself...and have fun!
2007-01-02 21:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now-a-days I wouldn't think people would look at that as slutty. Don't have sex with someone you don't love enough to marry- just in case!
2007-01-02 21:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not!! I know girls in 8th grade that are 15 that are worse than that. You are a long way from their.
2007-01-02 21:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by hey..(L) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...but Im 15 and Ive kissed more than that......lol....maybe Im a little sluty...hmmm...ok thats not good!!! lol! Ive kissed 4 guys....
2007-01-02 21:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...actually you are probably way below average
2007-01-02 21:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by misty_51273 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋