Ok Me and this girl always breaking up and getting back together. Well, we been going good for 2 weks no figting and been perfect. Well out of no where she brakes up with me when we were sposed to go the mall. so i go home. Then after a week she calls me and is like i had to bc of my mom. im like ok. then, shes like **** it i dont care any more i want you. im like ok kool. then after hour we hooked up shes like i have to tell you somehting (which took lot begging to get it out bc she wanted to tell me in person) shes like the day i broke up with you and sposed to go to the movies, i went to the movies with another guy. im like whoaa wtf? we are still dating, but lot girls been saying im dumb and i can do better or you need some one your lvl, im like ok, so now im here looking for real help. should i dump her? I do like her, but think this would happen again? or what?
2007-01-02 13:37:48 · 11 answers · asked by Michael R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is everything, if you can't trust her dump her! Once you get a new girlfriend she will be back in the picture because she is jealous. If you go soft and get back with her, she is just playing you like a fiddle.
2007-01-02 13:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by SKULL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will continue to happen. Your running around in a circle and so is she. She has you as a back up in case she doesn't like the other guy, she knows she can come running back to you. She uses you and you will get nowhere. You'll need to find a girl who does just "borrow" people. You need a girl who will like you and won't do the on and off thing. It just never works out that way. There are many other girls in the world.
2007-01-02 13:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...honey, you're still young. She's still young. Maybe the two of you should give it a rest for awhile. She obviously doesn't know what she wants and by the looks of what you're writing, you aren't quite sure what you want either.
My advice to you: See other people. Have a good time. If it's meant to be, it will be. If not, it never was meant to be. I was your age once and I know the angst you must be feeling...but you need to keep your focus straight. You need someone who isn't so wishy-washy.
Take things slow. This too shall pass.
2007-01-02 13:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's going to do this again. If she dumped you just because she wanted to go out with another guy, then that means she's not committed to you. She either needs to resist temptation and commit to you, or break up with you for good and date other guys. You need to be stronger and not be sucked in by her being nice to you just because she doesn't have another date lined up. She's a user and you're worth more than that.
2007-01-02 13:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if she liked you as much as you like her then you wouldnt be having these problems is she the one who keeps breaking up with you? it seems like shes only with you when theres no one or anything else for her and then as soon as she sees someone else she puts you on the back burner and tries her luck with the other person and if it doesnt work then she comes back to you cause she knows your there waiting its not fair opn you you can do better than that if you want to give her one more chance then say to her i cant handle you screwing me around all the time either you want me or you dont she will make her mind soon enough if you give her the ulitimatium i hope this helps
2007-01-02 13:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound very young... but still, you should not have to put up with being her spare. Think about her actions. She's going out with you when there isn't anything better to do or anyone she'd rather be with. You deserve to be someone's first choice. Tell her next time that YOU have something better to do. Then do it... without her.
2007-01-02 13:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just playing the hard do get she lets you have her and when you think it is goin great and you got her for sure she leaves it is just leaving you wanting more and if you don't want to keep doin that then break up with her cuz she's never goin to stop!!!
2007-01-02 13:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes playing games with you plenty more fish in the sea you only like her so go find someone that loves you and treats you how you should be treated dont be a doormat lifes to short to be playing games
2007-01-02 13:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by happychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK sounds to me like she's playing games with you. She doesn't know what she wants. You need to move on and forget about her. I suggest you move on and not take her back. She sounds like she's a flake. Do yourself a favor and move on.
2007-01-02 13:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up!!!yes i know we all know you really like that girl but she can do that to you many times after you knew it you have gone out respect to your self.give her freedom.find your own right girl to really respect and be honest with you all times.
2007-01-02 13:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋