I met this guy I am really attracted to, but I'm not sure if he's interested. He seemed to be at first, but now he's pulled away and I don't hear from him. I really would like to sleep with him but I'm not sure how to go about doing it, since we haven't gone out yet? And I don't want to look totally slutty!! Any advice?
2007-01-02 13:33:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your feelings....he's a guy and will sleep with you whether he likes you or not so do not be suprised if he sleeps with you then never talks to you again.
2007-01-02 13:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Carleyheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want this guy you hardly know to jump your bones but you don't want to look totally slutty? What you want to do IS totally slutty. So all you'd have to do is tell him your a s lu t and you'll get your wish. Be prepared for that being the last time he acknolwedges you though since most self respecting guys don't care to go around with sluts...they tend to carry diseases.
2007-01-02 13:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um- I am not sure why you just want to sleep with him.... I am a little confused but can't imagine that would be too difficult. Most guys are pretty open to that type of situation. If that's really how you feel just let him know. If feelings are involved however I dont think sleeping with him is a good idea... :-(
2007-01-02 13:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by babyjustn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about get to know him first. Most guys are turned off by slutty behavior.
2007-01-02 13:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have sex with him before you go out with him, you're going to look slutty. No way around that one. But if you want him to sleep with you, take off your clothes and jump on him.
2007-01-02 13:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the trick there is the not looking slutty part. getting into a guy's pants is usually easy. someone once said that turning a guy on is easy... come naked, bring bear. most guys i know say bear is optional.
ask him out, flirt outrageously, and just plain go for it.
2007-01-02 13:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a way to do it without looking "totally slutty".
Just throw yourself at him; if the media's right, few guys can resist.
2007-01-02 13:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that's your only intention...just be all over him and ask him out... but don't except much in return after you slept with him ....he could be showing his back to you...and disrespect you...only do it if that's only you want and it might be only one time.. otherwise if you are looking for a relationship try hanging out with him first during the day so he gets to know you and hopefully like you... Good luck
2007-01-02 13:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has pulled away because you come off as slutty.
2007-01-02 13:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get him alone like at his or ur house to watch a movie and then in the middle of the movie just be like F*** I'm horny or something like that or just ask him!!! It'll work if he ain't no virgin!!!
2007-01-02 13:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋