Ladies, I am a friendly guy that always tries to treat women right, but I tend to flirt innocently with all of my female friends. Do women classify me as a player even though I do not sleep with any of them?? They tend to always want to play mind games with me when all I want is a friendship? Should I not flirt as much. Help me....
2007-01-02 13:29:36 · 23 answers · asked by Luke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a right to flirt with as many women you want to,however, do not do anything without thinking about it, or considering the consequences,because women have a tendency to get jealous easilly (I should know).
In the middle of your "flirting sessions" take a step back, and analyze the situation from a different point of view.
what would YOU be thinking in HER shoes.
In all of this however, this seems to me like a very healthy relationship to have with all of your female friends.If they do not understand, then you know that they aren't REALLY your friends, but may be desiring something more.
And, NO. I DO NOT consider you a player.You are a normal man of the world and should live your life to the fullest, and enjoy it all your long years.
2007-01-02 13:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor Morgan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on flirting, there is nothing wrong with it, and NO flirting does not ma a player, bed hopping does. Many of today's younger women seem to think that if a guy smiles at them it is a relationship and these young women think they can claim ownership of that guy. If you're not interested in a relationship with any of your friends tell them so, up front. Those who enjoy the flirting will stick around those who are desperate will move on and you'll be the better for it.
2007-01-02 13:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you have to remember is women are way diffrent from men....When you flirt with a girl that is also a friend of your you put the thought in her head that there is a chance with you. So naturaly she will bring up the flirting notch on her end and even tend to get a little jealous when she sees you flirt with other girls...So imagine that your doing this to maybe 4 girls...Yes, each girl is looking at you as a player....Because they all think you want them and then you flirt with other girls....Bring it down a little save that charm and energy for the girl you want....Keeps friends as friends...The last thing you want is a bunch of girls mad at you....Not a pretty sight....
2007-01-02 13:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you just fllirt with ones you would consider making more than a friend, and too, if you treat a woman right, you're not going to have to do more than smile, that says it all. You sound like a nice person, don't smother your personality, though, you'll find yourself, being gagged, and that will not work, your who you are and only you can judge on how much is to much flirting_
2007-01-02 13:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by boosha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they still classify you as a player. Believe me i been through this myself
So dont get too friendly, especially if you are in the presence of the lady you like or her friends.
2007-01-02 13:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by bronson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well i flirt with all my male friends but they don't call me a player but my friends try to get me to pick one guy ahha I know hwo you feel! If they are always flirting with you..then don't flirt back..you wont be hurting their feelings but without harm you are telling your female friends that you guys are JUST friends haha so if you don't like them that way i no its hard but try to just have a casual talk with them..im sry if this isnt the info u were looking for but i was trying to help =/ Good Luck
2007-01-02 13:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to flirt and be friendly with these ladies. Hopefully they realize you are just being friendly. I would only see this as a problem if you have a girlfriend because she would probably be upset.
2007-01-02 13:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you might be considered as a huge flirt and extremely friendly..but then I'm not too sure if I would want to date anyone that flirted excessively or was extremely friendly around girls..
2007-01-02 13:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by missambitions 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think flirting innocently is alright if it is to the right person and as long as is not a sensitive issue. friendship can always be build through a sincere heart as simple as exchanging smiles and greetings. then of course to understand and care of one and another needs and difficulties.
2007-01-02 13:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by marry_a_kingkong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you fllirt the more mind games you'll get.when a man flirts with a woman he saying he's interested,the mind games are to find out how interested are you.If your not interested in any of them don't flirt just be nice.If you were a player you would be in a relationship with all of them.
2007-01-02 13:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋