Well see the thing is that I like this guy a lot and he also likes me back..we were coworkers and have gone out a couple times but just when we had a day off work, he also took me to meet his parents and i've been there twice already, everything is great between us but i'm still in the gettin' to know him stage and so he has friends (girls)he hangs out with and he says that as long as we're not a couple he's going to keep on hanging and maybe doing things with them too and that really bothers me bcoz i don't do that, when i'm getting to know a person I just don't still do things with other people so I don't know what to do... What should I do?? I really like this guy and he's been around when I've most needed him and he's always caring about me and always there for me...what should I do??
2007-01-02 13:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Rican Prinzez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never date a coworker. If you are both head over heals in love it may be worth the fall out but otherwise it gets just to complicated in the end. Pluse he may get more interested the less interested you are. Right now you are buging him. No guy likes a woman that trys to limit his friends.
2007-01-02 13:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by DDLynn l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you met his parents then I'd say that the two of you are beyond the "getting to know each other" stage. Sounds like you two are pretty serious. I'd confront him about the status of the relationship to see what he thinks.
If he feels that the two of you are a couple then he needs to respect your feelings and not get too close to his female friends. I mean it's okay for him to have friends that are girls but he cant get too touchy feely with them. If he insists on doing the touchy feely thing then that means he has no respect for your feelings.
Dont be afraid to put your foot down. Good Luck. :)
2007-01-02 13:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well..I hate to say it but a guy that tells you as long as you guys are not dating he is still going to hang out with his other friends that are girls and still do things with them is not making any plans to be a couple with you so don't hold your breath....Men are like children, they will take and take and take with they really like until somebody slaps their hands and tells them no....That's how you get their attention...But keep in mind you don't want a guy that you have to fight to keep his attention all the time...If he's been there for you in the past trust me it's only because he knows how to treat women the way they want to be treated so he can get some....
2007-01-02 13:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by "do things"? Do you mean like talk on the phone and go to the movies, or do you mean like making out?
If it is just platonic things, well that is the healthy thing to do. You should still see your friends when you have a relationship. It is not good to isolate yourself and you have to give him freedom to spend time with his friends.
If he is being physical with someone else, then put your foot down. You do not want to get into a friends with benefits situation. That is a frustrating, low self-esteem making dead end road. You can say I want to be exclusive. If he says no, then he is not worth your affection.
2007-01-02 13:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're saying that when you date a guy, you dump all your friends. He's at least staying true to his.
2007-01-02 13:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends then--he's obviously not wanting to be a couple yet.
2007-01-02 13:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋