Everytime they see each other they hug and she will hop in his lap and sit there until i ask her if she could get off my boyfriend. She gets up and says i need to chill out she says " He's like a brother to me". She flirts with him. I know he enjoys the attention from a better looking chick then me but should he allow her to be this touchy feely or am i just being jelous?
2007-01-02 13:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by haterage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it would bother me as well. I would tell each of them individually to stop it because you don't like it. If they persist, then stop associating with them both. There's no reason they can't be friends, but that kind of thing is going too far. It's not about jealousy, it's about them respecting you.
2007-01-02 13:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that's a bit "touchy feely" I have a real brother and believe me I do not sit in his lap. If you don't like him letting her do this then you need to talk to him and let him know how this makes you feel.
2007-01-02 13:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should back off. "Brothers and sisters" do not sit on each others lap and flirt unless they are from Alabama. Your boyfriend should man up and tell her to stay in her place, not his lap....
2007-01-02 13:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by So lyrical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has that kind of guts to do that infront of you imagin what can happen or has happend when you were not around. Seems like he enjoys her. if not then he should be setting her in place and that shouldnt happen next time
2007-01-02 13:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow her to be that touchy feely. You're jealous, but have every right to be.
2007-01-02 13:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should know her place and stay away from your BF. Its all good that theyre friends, and friendly and all, but theyre both taking it a little too far. Besides, if hes dating you, she has no need to be his friend period.
2007-01-02 13:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Hexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw it's time to beat some azz that's too damn friendly what kind of friend is that really you need to rethink y'all friendship and your relationship.Good Luck.Peace and Blessings
2007-01-02 13:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't do anything about this think of some consequences, breaking up mainly. If you don't want that to happen act fast and just tell them you don't want those type of things happening.
2007-01-02 13:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Shadows of my Sins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise is not gonna like u at all, tell him you need a break and that u think he needs it too, to sort out his feelings for this girl, then if he finds out he likes her you will still have some dignity and if he doesn't you will still have a bf.
2007-01-02 13:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is upsetting you then she is not a very good friend. She shouldn't do things that make you compete for his attention.
2007-01-02 13:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋