ok. so three months ago. ive been hanging out with the girl i like.
one day, i stopped by her work, and told her that i had feelings for her, but she said she wasnt looking for any relationship. and enjoys my company as a friend. we have been talking on phones, seeing each other in school. we werent together for new years. but we called each other to greet happy new year. im in college. 23. shes 22. we have three weeks of break. so im thinking of hanging out with her more. but i cannot help but wonder how she feels. on her bday, i gave her a gift. a winter scarf. and this wobbling object. on halloween i gave her a box of chocolate. this girl has been driving me crazy. do you think its silly of me to tell her more in depth about how i really feel about her. how i always think of her.
2007-01-02 13:22:44 · 3 answers · asked by funky_homosapien 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant its been three months since ive known her. not 'three months ago'
2007-01-02 13:23:50 · update #1
dude, im in da same situation, except i havent told her how i feel. everything is basically the same, it was her birthday, gave her a diamond pendant, christmas, gave her a guess watch and perfume, and didnt spend new years with her. but heres what i did about a week ago that seemed to get her going and thinking about me....i just stopped talking to her.period. shes the kind that call you and txt you all the time, we also work together, so i gave her the cold sholder for 1 day. that night i had her calling me asking why i would not talk to her. this kinda made her appreciate me more, might be kinda evil, but it worked. since the message she left, we got together and really talked, although i havent told her i like her. so maybe this will help and make her appreciate how much she really needs you in her life.
2007-01-02 14:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by alton956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you already told her that you have feelings for her. If you push more again she might drift away coz she told you that she's not looking for a relationship. Anyway, I know you just wanted to know if there's a chance if your relationship will bloom into something deeper. Go ahead and tell her you intentions, if she still have the same reaction well, you can't do anything about it. It's up to you if you still want to stick around and love her unconditionally but for how long?
2007-01-02 21:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. good luck.
2007-01-02 21:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋