I'm not supposed to be going out, but she told her parents and it is o.k. with her folks. I'm soooooo scared, but I like her.
2007-01-02 13:18:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with your girlfriend and tell her about your situation. She should be understanding and won't force her parents to met your parents.
2007-01-02 13:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something that an east indian would go through. IF you like her enough and you are ok with gettin married then you should go with the whole thing. Cuz the parents want to get a feel of your presence, they wanna see what your like and how you behave around different situations. That happened to me so your getting EXPERT advise here, The key is to be a charming and dont pose a threat to the parents, thats the key when you are dealing with the girls family.( The guys family is more careless becuase the guy can always move on easier and a girl has a hard time adapting to society if something happens between the guy and girl) Now my girlfriends family sees me as a good boy and we can hang out longer and we are trusted alone. ( that is hurting us a little becuase they dont think we are going to do anything immoral so they are holding our wedding off a little longer.) if you like her and adore her presence then the key is to meet the parents. if you dont meet the parents your girl might feel as if you are backing out and that can hurt your relationship. When i met my gf parents I gained alot of respect from my girlfriend and her parents and shows that i am on her side and serious. not just in for the lust.
2007-01-02 13:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should start trying to show your parents how mature you are and then say that you really are ready to have a girlfriend and then come clean about it. Then say she is such a great girlfriend and person that her parents want to meet you. Maybe we should have them over for dinner. Just be honest, it's better then keeping a secret.
2007-01-02 13:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW that's kinda messed up just tell them that your not allowed to date right now and that they'll have to meet your parents some other time I'm sure they'll understand.Good Luck.Peace and Blessings
2007-01-02 13:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a set of balls and i mean not the ones you play with well maybe you are.Tell your parents that you are not gay and have a girl friend and her mother and father want to meet them.
2007-01-02 13:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.
this situation reminds me of something that would be in the fresh prince of belair.
well, if you like her then you should either be honest and tell your parents, or just say that its the parents of a girl you dont like but they want to come over and talk with you.
2007-01-02 13:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by perfectperson1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean with your parents and face whatever they have in store for you. You made the CHOICE to go against your parent's rules that also meant that you made the CHOICE to be responsible for whatever consequences arose because of your breaking the rules...well here come the consequences.
2007-01-02 13:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to your parents about it and tell them that you really like her. Don`t tell them that you were already going out, just ask them if its okay if you go out because there is a girl who you really like. Why aren`t you allowed to go out anyway?
2007-01-02 13:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it buster. Sorry.
If you are lying/deceiving your parents, the gf will be disappointed, her parents will probably deny her the option of continuing to see you, and your parents will ground you further. .
Learn your lesson. OBEY the parents. that is what they are for!!
2007-01-02 13:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you find out let me knoww. I am in the same situation, but my parents want ot meet his and he isn't suppose to be dating me.
2007-01-02 13:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by hey..(L) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋