My sister and her boyfriend are both 28. They have dated for a year and a half. They live together. She tells me they are rarely intimate, she says she has tried everything and nothing has worked. He says he is not cheating, that nothing is wrong and that he loves her. I say she needs to move on. She says he is a good person and it's basically only intimacy lacking. What is the deal with this situation?
2007-01-02 13:00:04 · 3 answers · asked by goodguy4554 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some men are just retarded in this area (like my hubby) hopefully she seems ok with it, that she really feels that way because once youre married it doesnt get any better (usually worse). Knowing what i know now I would have been better off moving on sooner, oh well just remind her that it usually only gets worse and she needs to be able to accept that. goodluck!
2007-01-02 13:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's insecure about his performance in the bedroom, or he's one of those rare guys that has a low sex drive. If she's really concerned, and they are serious, maybe they should try sex therapy (through a trained professional of course) before they get any closer.
2007-01-02 21:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS TO MAKE SURE THAT HE ISNT CHEATING.. OKAY BECAUSE THAT IS NOT NORMAL... BUT WITH MEN YOU NEVER KNOW BECAUSE MINE LOVES SEX WITH ME AND STILL IS A ********* CHEATER... SHE NEEDS TO HAVE A HEART TO HEART TALK WITH HIM AND JUST PLAIN DEMAND FOR HIM TO EXPLAIN WHAT IS KEEPING HIM FROM WANTING SEX.
2007-01-02 21:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋