My girlfriend just broke up with me, and now is going out with my best friend? Apparentaly she doesn't like me anymore, but I still love her! What should I do?
2007-01-02 12:59:12 · 26 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, I thought things were going well... Out of the blue she breaks up with me? No signs?
2007-01-02 13:02:11 · update #1
To make things worse, I've know her for about 4 years and my best friend for about 10
2007-01-02 13:06:35 · update #2
Cheer up, that is normal. At least once in our life that happens. Your bestfriend will be there to hear you, and me too.
2007-01-03 09:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I hate to play the game of "Oh yeah, well!" but what if I told you I knew a girl who broke up with her boyfriend of, hmm I think it was 4-5 years..ah. somewhere in there, and then his best friend proposes to this girl and she accepted. Yeah, she hurt you, but 2 things come to mind: 1) It could be worse (you could have been the poor guy who was building a house/buying a new car/ paying for a wedding.. I'd buy that poor guy a beer if I knew him well enough) and 2) You're going to love her for a loong time (if you truly loved her) but you'll meet someone else and you'll find that life gets better... all in time!
2007-01-02 21:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your best friends a dick. Lol. Find a new girl, if shes gonna drop you for your best friend then youd be stupid to waste your time on her. If your having trouble coping with the breakup, id suggest chocolate. :]
* By the way.. If shes dating your best friend now, there mustv'e been some flirting (or maybe worse) going on before you even broke up that made her decide to dump you for him.
Good luck. :]
2007-01-02 21:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to work it out. punch ur friend in the face and tell her how u feel. ask her why she left. also dating ur best friend is also a bad idea because its more like a brother-sister relationship then a lovers relationship so she probable just desided the spark wasnt between u guys anymore.
lifes a ***** but good luck
2007-01-02 21:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by ima gurl, i know this stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.......your best friend is NOT your best friend. and you should ditch both of them and move on.....it will take time and it is gonna hurt, but you need to meet new people and hang out with a different crowd.....actually, start your own crowd, be confident and sexy.....always be sexy......at one point, she'll notice what she lost and be miserable.....always laugh around her, put your arms around another girl.....you know....don't show any signs of saddness.....be popular, and hot and dress diff. and get a hair cut put some cologne on EVERYDAY and walk past her, IGNORE HER. i would suggest either curve or MANIA by georgio armani good luck! get on her nerves, and u will soon fall out of love with her, while all the girls fall in love with u
2007-01-02 21:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She going out with your best friend? what kind of a ***** is this that she would get in between to Friends and further more what kind of a best friend is that?????
you need to think, were if the love that she is meant to have for you. if she loved you she would not be screwing around With your best friend.
2007-01-02 21:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by buffeyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's hard to give advice about something like this... what i would do is accept what can't be changed and figure out where i stand....
accept the fact that she no longer cares for you, and talk to your friend. explain how you feel and get him to explain how he feels about the situation. then you'll both know where you stand and the situation doesn't need to be made worse by hidden resentment.
2007-01-02 21:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I hate when these things happen, I know how you feel really. It just kind of kills for a while - just get attention from other friends and talk about it.
2007-01-02 21:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Shadows of my Sins 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all get a new bestfriend thats totally wrong but maybe you should tell him how you feel and she sound like a player to me to do that to you. thing happen for a reason and maybe this happen becase you deseve better than a player =)
2007-01-02 21:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on...you've just lost your girlfriend and your bestfriend...either of those is somewhat traumatic...
Keep busy until you can get your mind off them...they aren't worth your tears or sorrow...they apparently aren't the people you thought they were...
2007-01-02 21:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋