should i tell the girl i like how i feel about her even tho she has a bf? opinions and suggestions are appreciated thanks
2007-01-02 12:48:59 · 34 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go being a homewrecker! Just hold off until they split, and then you can start making your moves.
-Victoria
2007-01-02 12:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria Love-Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear James
I wanted to reply to your request in a sweet way~ Just the reality is NO WAY JOSE!
Back off Jack- he will kick you butt rightfully so for messing with his girl. Just wait- relationships these days only last weeks, not years. Work on your muscles and smooth moves for that day after the big break up.
Move on dude.
Best wishes.
2007-01-02 12:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn it dude i wanted to ask this Q too LOL
anyway..heres my suggestion.
it will totally depend on how much u like her, how much u know about her and her bf and how long they had been together with.
if the gal is juz ur crush, juz forget abt her and move on.
if u really like her a lot for quite a while why not?
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f she and her bf JUZ got together and i mean like juz a couple of mths, they are surely still in the honeymoon mood and it would be hard to seperate them. however if they have been together for a very long time, it would totally depend on hows their relationship now.
how much do u know about her? if she breaks up with hrt bf cuz of u, will you be happy? can you give her wat her bf cant give and can give?
will u able trust her if she really breaks up with her bf and be with you? cuz this would mean she can do the same thing to you next time in the future.
think about it dude...as for me, i decided not to tell the gal dat i like her.
2007-01-02 12:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nonono sorry but this will lead to a potentially akward situation. it can ruin a perfectly well built relationship. it makes it even worse if she doesnt feel the same. but be there when she's upset and dont try to compete with her boyfriend. you never know, maybe next week she'll want to be with you instead of her boyfriend.
good luck and hope it helps
2007-01-02 12:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by 89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not yet you have to wait for the right time like when she had a fight with her bf that's when you come in or just wait till she is single
2007-01-02 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! If she likes you back she might break up w/ her BF and get together w/ you! If she doesn't feel the same back then get another girl that lies you too.
2007-01-02 12:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That situation is not likely to end up in your favor. It seems unlikely that she is going to ditch a guy and then get with you. Instead, it will probably be awkward and she will feel creeped out that you told her that. Wait it out or try to find another girl who is available.
2007-01-02 12:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rebbew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for a more appropriate time to tell her, when she's single. If she's happy with her boyfriend that may just make things really confusing for her and if you truly care about her and everything you should want her to be happy.
2007-01-02 12:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to score with a girl who has a bf?? I think it is easier to score with a girl that's available. Unless you want to get black and blue from her boyfriend.
2007-01-02 12:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in a good relationship and your good friend then I would just keep the feelings to myself. If she's just like co worker or a an aquaintence then spill your guts.
2007-01-02 12:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋