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I feel so lonely anymore. I feel that no one loves me or wants to be with me. I don't as pretty anymore, as I used to feel. I feel like I am living life just so I will die. It feels like no one cares about what I do anymore. I feel like guys aren't attracted to me. I need help quick! Thanks in advance!

2007-01-02 12:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

All of my guy friends, they act like they like me than they say they like me as just a friend. They tell me that I am pretty and they like to hang out with me! What is with that, huh?

2007-01-02 12:47:17 · update #1

I don't revolve my life around guys, but when I see my friends with their bfs. I want that feeling. Me and my best friend hang out almost all the time, but I still feel lonely.

2007-01-02 12:49:08 · update #2

18 answers

The best thing to do is to try to forget about your current problems. Just realize that the person who judges us the
most is ourselves. How you view yourself is most likely not how other people see you. How you feel is what you will portray so if you just try to feel better about yourself, people will respond to that, if you look kinda depressed right now some people will try to avoid you because they dont wanna get involved in you problems. Try to feel better about yourself and your problems will disappear.
Good Luck :)

GO CLASS OF 07

2007-01-02 12:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 1 0

Hey I feel exactly the same way! I guess the best thing to do is to get rid of the negative thoughts and end their destructive cycle, becasue they can really make you depressed. I found out that if you go watch a movies with some friends or even your family, reas a book ,take a walk or do something that you like, you have less time to think about the negative things. That's how I'm dealing with it. What i do sometimes is to watch a sad movie or the real life stories of people in bad conditions, thenn i feel like i amd being SO ungrateful God has given me good health and a lot of things to be thankful for and that i shouldn't make myself depressed over these things. It sounds easier than it really is. But you just have to keep yourself busy. Good luck and enjoy life

2007-01-02 20:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica V 1 · 0 0

Sorry to hear that you are feeling down. If you do feel that you are depressed to the point that you think no one cares, or that you are just living life to die, please speak to a Doctor or other professional - as it sounds like you are suffering from depression.

Unfortunately, life has it's ups and downs, but to pull through concentrate on what makes you happy. When I have the blues, I exercise, go tanning, put on makeup and a cute outfit, go for a walk, go shopping. Anything to mix things up a bit and make yourself feel better. Once you are happier with yourself, others will notice it too.

2007-01-02 20:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by star22 3 · 0 0

Hon, I assume you are a high school senior. Honestly, boys at your age are really stupid. You'll go off to college, you'll meet all kinds of new people (including guys) and things will be better. And even if they're not, not having a guy is not the end of the world - seriously it's not. When you learn to be content with yourself and your life, you will be much more attractive to guys. When you have the attitude like you do, you come off sad, desperate and probably less attractive. Keep your chin up because as bad as things seem, they will get better - I promise!

2007-01-02 20:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0 0

Sweetheart. I think everyone once in their life feels like you do right now. It will pass but you have to talk to someone about it. I went through the same thing when I was your age. I went and talked to my mother and she and I decided to go see a doctor. It helped a lot. If you feel you can't talk to your mother go talk to a friend or a sibling or even a teacher at school. No one will think you are crazy. Good luck to you!!

2007-01-02 20:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by sassa26 2 · 0 0

Everyone at some point has felt or is feeling the exact same way that you are. Life can be really hard sometimes...but this low point too shall pass. What you do should really only matter to YOU!! YOU make YOURSELF happy....don't depend on anyone else to do that for you. And you'd be surprised...when you are happy with yourself and your path and what you are doing...people will FLOCK to you!! Don't let things get you down...life is a wonderful journey!!

2007-01-02 20:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Miloree 2 · 1 0

Confide in your friends and family. It's easier to get past these things when you have support. Don't feel like your the only one out there either, alot of people have gone through the same thing. Stay strong, and if you are religious seek the answers you need through prayer.

2007-01-02 20:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Joshm 3 · 0 0

Why do you feel this way? I don't really know what to tell you, but it sounds like you might be depressed, so talk to a family member or friend or maybe your doctor, and try reading a Bible or praying.

2007-01-02 20:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Go to a doctor or a therapist your depressed and stuff not to be rude but you need help. I don't know you but I think you are pretty and guys do like you you just got to get out there more! Good luck!

2007-01-02 20:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 1 1

I'm sure someone loves you. Your just in a rough patch. If things don't clear up in a month or two I'd go to your doctor about conserns of depression. I hope things get better.

2007-01-02 20:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kat. 2 · 0 0

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