I found someone I loved so much but the relationship was horrible. I wasted more than a year with him! I LOVED HIM SO MUCH!! , but he told me today he did not love me and we broke up. He has been such a jerk to me too. He knows too that he will be alone for the rest of his life cause he is a conceited jerk. He would not let me hang out with friends and all he wanted was to get in bed with me. I still love him tho!! How do I get over this??
2007-01-02 12:42:09 · 26 answers · asked by Lin W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, are you paying attention to what you just said??? Pumpkin, you get over this loser by learning NOT to be attractive to the same type of guys that will lead to the same situation. Pathetic, if you start going out with the same qualities that you found attractive in the first guy! Cupcakes, one way you can over this loser is to start date dating guys, date as many guys as you can sweetheart.
2007-01-02 12:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, I do not understand, You want to be with a conceited jerk who made a relationship with him horrible.
You say you love him and are depressed over your breakup.. Why? Girl give thanks he is out of your life, and move on..You sound like a nice person, do now something for yourself. You were really not doing much with him, but being in bed.. He took from you and used you from what you wrote above and gave you nothing in return and you want such a guy back to be in your life.. Talk to a councilor or one of your friends.. you need to talk to someone. You have worth, you have the right to be happy. Why would you want to be with someone that you say the relationship was horrible. Get out and meet new people.. Find something worthy, a new hobby, volunteering, a new study, and do it.. Keep busy and you will forget him.. Love yourself and believe you are worthy then much more than this horrible relationship and you will be given much more.. Pray for God's strength to help you out.
Sounds like he is not worth crying over. Good Luck.
2007-01-02 21:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys make a lot of mistakes, usually when guys act stupid or do dumb things they need a slap in the face. I was in a relationship for 3 years and my ex left me really out of no where. I was crushed, I mean I really couldnt think of life without her, that was almost 4 months ago, Im still hurt but its better now. I really hate to think about all the people that go through this because its jus so painful. U know when people say u dont know what u have until u lost it, it's true. The best thing to do is talk, u cant be shy with ur feelings or emotions. If he doesnt want to talk to u or even listen, then forget about him, I know its hard and i still havent done it, but if hes doesnt want to listen then hes not worth ur time. My heart goes out to u and I hope that u will be okay.
2007-01-02 20:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he does not deserve a gal like you! Things like not letting you hang out with your friends is one of the first thing you should look for in a guy if you plan on getting into a relationship. Your friends will always be there but a love, lover can be gone in a blink of an eye. You need to keep your friends close to you because they will always be in your heart. So If he can actually say that he does not love you....then do not talk to him. Because once someone says they do not love you...its really hard to trust them again. because you really never know if they really love you or not! So I think you need to hang out with your friends..and let them know how you are feeling and tell them the situation. They may be able to help you. Also how about going out and doing something fun! that usually will take your mind off of him. Do something that makes you happy, because life is supposed to be about happiness....not negativity! I hope this helps somewhat! you'll be ok!
2007-01-02 20:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Luckygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,first off conceited guys are jerks,so thats one thing you can look at as to why not go back to him,secondly ,ask yourself wut would someone think of you when you are with this jerk, have you seen mad tv , well they had this skit , about how do you make yourself look good in front other people , well wut you do is pick a ugly person to be your best friend, so that way you look hot ... lol j/k dont do that , wut you do is call up that pez l@@king mexican guy you never gave the time or day and ask him how he got over you, and dont be all L@@king at his porche and big house and be all WOW you are realling doing good , he will see you and smell you a mile away , and besides pez has moved on your there for only advise .... lol j/k tell yourself wut you told pez... "I'm sure there is someone out there for you' and when you find that person you'll be so happy " yea right L@@k where your at now you should of picked pez ... and wut ever you do dont listen to mimi she is a man hater dont ever date on the rebound , you want things to go good for you , so dont go and be mimi because she is telling you get even with men and thats a big no no , we dont need haters in this world we need lovers ....... @{--;---
2007-01-02 21:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by luvsgateway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is not treating you with complete respect and dignity, then they don't deserve to be with you. Make a promise to yourself that this year is going to be about you. Do everything you can to take care of yourself, your health, mentally, emotionally, and physically. It sounds as if you might have some self-esteem issues that cause you to love someone that will not treat you like the Goddess you truly are. Find help for this and do everything you can to completely and thoroughly fall in love with YOU before you even consider getting into another abusive relationship.
2007-01-02 20:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? He doesn't treat you like you deserve to be treated. I once was in a relationship like that. You do what you have to. Think of things that'll make you be like, "He's going to regret this and come to releize that he will never find a person like me!" To get undepressed, I always find a way to get mad, like listining to music that mades me mad. Then you have a tendency to forget about him. Another guy will come along. If he treats you right and you know that he will love you forever, that'll be the man for you. Each relationship you've been in will teach you, so when Mr. Right comes along, everything will go smoothly. You'll learn who is a jerk, whose serious about the relationship, who just wants to get you in bed, and so on.
2007-01-02 20:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at this point there seems like theres nothing you can do to change his mind right? try talking with friends or just spending time with them, thats usually what eases my pain in the time of need. If he is a jerk then you can tell yourself your above people who are like that , who knows- that probably didn't help, sorry.
2007-01-02 20:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Shadows of my Sins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just to not let it ruin your life. It's not meant to be, obviously. You will find some guy that you will spend the rest of your life with and it's not him. So look forward at the possibilities and not behind you at th failures.
Now I'm not saying that you should go on a dating spree or anthing. I'm just saying that you should just continue your search of finding him.
2007-01-02 20:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by hockey_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back up on that horse and ride baby.. ride.. the best cure for a broke heart is to find someone new to be with... dont have to be your true love find a nice guy to just hang out with and keep your mind busy..... good luck and i wish you the best.. i know it seems really bad.... but there are lots of nice guys out there and you will find a great one if you let yourself...
2007-01-02 20:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋