Do you ever feel you D.A.M.N if you do or D.A.M.N.if you don't.
I like to be treated like a lady still,I believe a man should open the car door,lite your cig if you smoke,Pull your chair back,And yes pay for dinner .
have you ever encounter a lady that resents just treatment?
2007-01-02 12:37:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Schneb you got my vote ,And thanks everybody .i wish i could pick more .
2 member back at You
2007-01-02 12:48:14 · update #1
BH thanks for the lesson ,Point taken Damned.
2007-01-02 16:50:40 · update #2
SPOT) im a woman of my word ,but i absolutely loved your answer most .
Stay exactly who you are .
There's still old fashion lady's ,like myself
2007-01-02 16:54:22 · update #3
yes indeedy, but i think they're just insecure about their role as a woman. you gotta be independent, because guys like that in a woman, but yet you gotta let him do his job, which is to treat you right.
2007-01-02 12:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by schneb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want me to do that then you have to have the kids bathed, dinner on the table, the house cleaned and be dressed nice and pretty when I get home from work. I also like my shirts pressed with light starch and.....give me a break. People have ben evolving to be equals. This includes women in the work place and stay at home dads. Hey, I get that it takes all kinds to make the world go round but your looking for a guy who will also expect a lot of that garbage I listed up front there. lol. Happy hunting...... 0o
2007-01-02 12:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Evolving 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! I'm quite old fashioned.......I still believe in treating women this way. Got quite a surprise a few years back when I went on a date with one of those "modern day" women. About an hour into the evening, she looked at me and said: "if you open one more door for me or try to light my cigarette again, this date is over."
Go figure.......anyway, I'm too old to change my ways so if I ever date again, I WILL be opening doors for her and paying all expenses for the evening!
2007-01-02 12:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be treated like a lady, one ought to behave like one (and the word is damned, not damn). I'm no lady (boring) but I can behave in a ladylike manner when the situation requires it, and I do at times enjoy being treated like a lady (the little courtesies).
However, point gaming isn't looked upon too favorably by Y!Answers so if they pull this, your "vote" will go for naught.
2007-01-02 12:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. I quickly learned she hates all of it. I opened the door for her, she opens the other door and goes through it on her own. I pull out her chair for her, she takes mine. After a while of trying and not working, I gave up. Soon I'm being blamed for having no class. There's just some relationships that shouldn't have started in the first place.
2007-01-02 12:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband takes my daughter out on dates when they are about 12-15 and does all that stuff for them so when they do start dating they know how they are supposed to be treated.
When my sons are older I will do the same with them so they know how to treat a woman they are out with.
You could always stand next to your chair and go "ahem" or stand till they get the hint. I would b/c that's what I expect.
Did I make it to #12?
2007-01-02 12:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both men and women want to be treated with respect. I have will always open doors for women, assist in seating them and stand when they come to the table. But times they are a changin'. And social rules and norms are becoming more lax.
When a woman asks me out to dinner, I always offer to pay, but they always insist. I think that is proper. If a man asks a woman out, he should expect to pay, if he is asked out, the woman should be expected to pay.
2007-01-02 12:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Biff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, me I am the type of person that try to be very independent. I think that a woman should also treat her man once in a while because eventually men will start to think you are too dependent and cheat or leave you.
2007-01-02 12:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by meka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like old fashioned values and manners. It is when you put 21st century ideology into it when we get a little confused. Just treat people with respect and like you want to be treated and it all seems to work out. I love chivalry but some women take it for weakness!!
2007-01-02 12:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by mss04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many Women that resent that kind of treatment. My best friend is an accountant and she is that way. I always tell ehr to let the man feel like a man and buy her stuff. She refuse's. It's people like my friend that ruin for the rest of you! lol! '-)
2007-01-02 12:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have encountered women like that, and I agree... I appreciate that type of behavior in a man. It's old fashioned, but wonderful. A lost art.
CJS
2007-01-02 12:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋