I mean ... last 2 guys I hooked up with ... I found out months later that they had 3 other girlfriends besides me one of htem was even married!!!.. why do guys love to lie all the time?
2007-01-02 12:24:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take your time and get to know them before you hookup or commit to a relationship so you have more time to get a feel if they are honest or not . The system is never fool proof but helps . Also either sex can lie so it is an equal opportunity downfall of some people.
2007-01-02 12:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you have had met such guys. But not all guys are so.. there are many real nice guys out there that do not lie. Many guys out there would like to meet a nice girl, a girl just like you. Maybe the ones you met were very immature and just plain selfish. Where are you meeting such guys.. Maybe you need some new friends, new friends that will help introduce you to new guys. Maybe you also need a new place to meet guys. A Church or young group is a good start and The YWCA is another. If there is not Youth Group in your Church, talk to your Pastor, maybe you could set one up..Good Luck..
2007-01-02 12:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons why guys lie. The most male answer, I think is, we want more action. Another reason that I hear often, and the reason why I lied to her, is because I didn't want to hurt her. It was a small thing that could easily be forgotten but small things count, remember that. How can you live with it? I don't know, but she just forgot about me. She said we would still be friends but she didn't answer my calls or respond to any of my messages. So I guess by ignoring, avoiding, forgetting about him/them...
2007-01-02 12:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you hook up with them...what do mean?
What I would do next time is get their home number. If they refuse to give it to you, then I'm sure they're hiding something.
Most guys would invite you to meet their family or friends. If he doesn't do that, then he's hiding something.
People would lie so they won't get into trouble. Guys and girls would lie...
2007-01-02 12:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LIVE WITH IT!!!!!!!! Yes, I agree, most men lie, but not all do. The minute you find out a man has lied to you, leave him at once! I promise, no matter WHAT he says, he'll always lie to you. Find one that doesn't, they're out there!
2007-01-02 12:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women lie? have you read any other stories on this site. You picked the wrong guys sweetie that's all.
Pick new places to pick new people.
2007-01-02 12:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we think(not me) with a head that is'nt attached to our shoulders.
it is however a two way street,in that while the men in your life are dissing you there are men being dissed as well.guys are creatures of opportunity unfortunatley,they will try to get away with what ever they can if they can.
the best advice for you is that there are guys out there
who are decent and just to keep trying and it will work
out eventually
2007-01-02 12:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the one to break it to you...but girls and boys lie! Not all but they do it's just life, eventually you will find a guy that lies less often
2007-01-02 12:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by majickspocketpc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time he lies, stop the relationship. Don't put up with it. Liars, male or female, are selfish and don't care about anyone but themselves. They lie to get what they want.
2007-01-02 12:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Doug H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls lie. Guys lie. It is just the facts of life hunny!
2007-01-02 12:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Go Away 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋