I love my ex girlfriend more than anything. And she says she loves me, but she doesn't want to back out right this moment. And she's getting attached to other guys. And she always talks about other guys and says how gorgeous they are. It makes me feel horrible. What can I do? Should I do anything? Should I let her go?
2007-01-02 12:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by George. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone, this means alot and you've all given me great answers.
2007-01-02 12:36:02 · update #1
Kick her *** to the curb. She isn't worth keeping. SHe is a cheater waiting to happen seriously. I mean its ok for her to say a guy is good looking but if she is lusting after them, forget her. There is too much *** in the world to put up with her.
2007-01-02 12:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Stan - let her go. I know it's hard.. one of the hardest things ever.. but trust me, in the long run you don't want to be with someone that is interested in (as you say, attached), or talks about other guys to you in a way that demeans you. That only hurts you. Why would you want or need to be with someone who hurts you? Sounds to me she's just dragging you along for the ride (I know, it hurts.. sorry..). I know her type and have friends like that, and it's just wrong!! You should be with someone who treats you like you're the most gorgeous, wonderful guy in the world.. So, let her go and get out there and find the girl for you - this one is NOT the one..
2007-01-02 12:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry your proubly not going to want to hear this but it may be best to let her go. If she really cares she will realize what a great guy she is missing out on and if not your better off without her.
It sounds like she is trying to be honest with you about getting attracted to other people but its not cool to be with someone and talk about how attractive other people are at all.
I would just let her know that it hurts you and she would not like it if you did that.
Start doing some other stuff with your friends and do things that make you feel good about yourself!
2007-01-02 12:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide you want to do just go do it. I learned after not being able to get her back is don't give her time to think. I mean always be around keep calling her, keep IMing her, keep sending her comments on myspace, whatever it is just keep doing it. Make sure you don't leave her comments like "I miss you" or "I love you" and "I want to be with you" because I'm sure she already knows all of this. Try to make it casual, you know. What I did exactly what I just told you, but I got tired of it and I wanted her to want me, so I thought if I went away and let her call me she would know she would want me. Now I realized that it just gave her time to realize what she was going to miss and she just went away. Good luck
2007-01-02 12:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i went through the same thing and it aint easy. let her know that you WONT chase her but yu care very much for her and you look forward to the day that the two of you can give it another go. tell her when that day comes that youll drop everything but till then you gotta live too and it will help if she sees and hears about you and a few girls. youd be surprised what a little jealousy can kickstart. good luck bro.
2007-01-02 12:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by speedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop torturing yourself and let her go she's trying to hurt you ! Stay away and don't even give her the time of day. You can find someone else better than that she sounds evil and mean. Easier said than done but if she's that hurtful it should make it all the easier to decide.
2007-01-02 12:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
George, George,
Move on now. She is not in love she wants you on the list. Move on now.
Oh and do not tell the sad sap story to the next girl you meet. She will assume you are soft.
2007-01-02 12:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself are you on talking terms? second ask yourself wut happened to get to breaking-up, and is it something you can change?if you answered yes to all ,well there is no hope ...j/k lol ...well if you are on talking terms give her a call and make it just a call for now ,dont ask her out yet ,find out wuts been happening in her life ,wish her a happy new year first off ,dont bring up sad crapp that may be happening in your life or feeling right now,make it a good conversation a happy conversation ,dont try too hard ,make her laugh,because if things were good before and u made her laugh you want the call to end with her thinking about you and wut fun you had together when you were together ,when you hang up.... call her back like in half an hour and tell her you forgot to mention how you were intrested in going out just to hang out ,because you are begining to forget wut she looks like and that you dont want to forget wut she looks like ... because she is the best thing that ever happened in your life she'll blush ,when u sense it go in for the kill , and tell it sreally because yor moms making you ,she'll laugh and you just say no its wut you want ... after that its up to you ... valentines coming up so you better make plans b4 some1 else good luck, as far as wuts going on she may just be trying to get you jealous , did you or do you do something s like that to her ,and if so cut it out jerk , she said she doesnt want to back out so obvisously she wants you and she is trying to make you think ,you are going to loose her if you dont change or do something ,make her feel like she is the only one ,because obviously you want to be the only one in her life ,so how do expect to get what you want when your not givn it your all
2007-01-02 12:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by luvsgateway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and tell her everything.
Do not push her to decide If you do you will lose her.
Good luck
2007-01-02 12:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go man
but if you like her that much you can try and show her that your way better than them like ah show your value to her
and if she still dont want to then leave her
2007-01-02 12:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋