Is there something wrong w/ me?

Question

In 7th grade I left public school and started going to a prep school and then in 9th grade I went to an all-girls prep school. In Fall '07, I'll be in college. Not only am I a virgin, but I also have virgin lips if you know what I mean. The only time I kissed someone was in 1st grade. I'm not ugly by a long shot, I just haven't rly had the chance to have a boyfriend and I'm rly embarrassed by this. I'm scared ppl are gonna tease me about it in college. I'm 17 and never been kissed. Is there something wrong w/ me? Someone help me :(

to the person who told me to "get off my computer" what makes you think i'm constantly on this thing? because i'm not. that was rly rude esp. since you have no idea who i am and whats been going on in my life for the past 4 yrs. so dont insinuate that i'm lazy.

Answer 1

There are way more people like you than you realize, because they're not the ones you notice. Don't worry about it, and don't ever settle for some loser because you're afraid you're going to be left behind.

And above all who cares what other people think? The only person you need to impress is you. If you have that self-confidence, you're going to attract a much higher-quality guy than if you seem desperate!

Answer 2

No, there is nothing wrong with you. My husband was the first real kiss that I had, and he was also my first boyfriend. We didn't start dating until our sophomore year of college. We dated for two years and got married. We have now been happily married for 11 years.

By the way, when I say happily married, I don't mean that things are always peachy keen or that we haven't had our share of problems. I just mean that we choose to work to keep our relationship strong. It's work, but it's so worth it. He is my best friend, as well as a great father to my son, a person I respect tremendously, and my lover. We have come through so much, and are stronger for it.

You have time to experience all of those things, and if people make fun of you, that's their problem. Have confidence in yourself, and wait for a guy to come along who is worth your time. Don't just give away a kiss or your virginity because you haven't yet. We chose to wait until we were married to have sex, and while that probably seems archaic, it was very much worth it.

Answer 3

You should not be ashamed. I'm 17 and never been kissed. You have no idea how many guys want girls like you and me. If they got us then that would mean that they were our onlys and they would be so proud that we were only theirs and they didn't have to worry about being better than that other guy and they could be the best. In fact, my advice to you is to wait until you're married. The best guys always want the girls that have waited. Guys don't want stuff that other guys have thrown away into the "used" pile. They want the "new". That's us we're new. We're fresh. We haven't been worn down by other guys and if anyone laughs or makes fun of you for that then they are obviously pervs.

Answer 4

Naw some things just dont happen. Everyone is different, yet the same. A couple of ppl i know didnt get their first kiss til 19, and 20. I'm a virgin too and i'm 19. Just remember its ur body and u have rights too. Also u cant feel inferior unless u give ppl consent to what they are saying.

Answer 5

Sweetie, don't worry about it! You have nothing to be ashamed of, at all. I would have rather been in your position when I was 17 then what I was! I know it may seem like a big deal to you right now, but just don't stress about it. You'll find a guy that will understand you for who you are, not the number of guys you've kissed or done anything else with.
The fact that you haven't given in to that sort of peer pressure is outstanding, I give you major kudos for that.

Answer 6

No there isn't anything wrong with that. There arent many pretty girls that havent been kissed. So the guys will probably flock to u. Just be careful and dont let a player take that first kiss away from u.becuase there is nothing like the first kiss!

Answer 7

You should be proud - not embarrassed. There are girls 3 and 4 years younger than you that have already been pregnant. I think it is your business and that you should be very picky whom you give your first kiss, as well as your heart too. You don't have to tell any other girls about this. Just keep it to yourself. Definitely don't tell guys, until you are 100% sure he's the right one. They will just see it as a challenge, and lie to get what they want. Good luck ~

Answer 8

Hmm...i would imagine that college kids would be a bit more mature. But if this makes you feel any better...I'm your age, and I have only had 1 kiss and it was not that "official". I am in the same boat as you and I'll be honest to you I think about not having a g/f everyday and I'm almost 18. I try and tell myself that things will work out and I hope things do work out for me, and for you. There are good people out there. Good luck!

Answer 9

girl if there is something wrong with you then there is something very wrong with me. I almost 21 and i cant really say i have first kiss. And that is honest to GOD. i did not really think about it till i was like 18 but what ever, when it happen it will happen. and there is nothing wrong being a virgin. i am too a virgin, and proud of it. what ever ur decision is, may the lord be ur guide.

Answer 10

There's nothing wrong with you in fact give it a little more time and when the boys find out how innocent you are it's going to be a challenge to see who can get close to you first.Don't let that go to your head though and give in to every boy who comes along.Remember your 17 and have a whole life ahead of you still.Good Luck Swetheart!