I asked a question before about if I should tell my boyfriend that I've been cheating on him for 6 months with different men. Because today he told me how much he loves me and that he wants to get married some day, and I was feeling bad about what I've done because he doesn't know. But if I tell him do you think he has the right to be mad? I don't want to tell him if he's going to get mad because I think he should respect me because I'm a girl, what do you think?
2007-01-02 12:19:31 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica - AKA - Carolina Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, my pathetic little ignorant slut. He deserves to know asap. Tell him now and let him get over it. If he sticks around he deserves living in hell with you. What a booby prize! Is he as doofus as you? Must be. Maybe he will stick since he hasn't figured your out so far. lol
2007-01-02 12:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for you, he has every right to do a lot worse than just be mad at you.
Unfortunately for him, the law prevents him from doing so.
Ok seriously, are you kidding? If you've been cheating on him for 6 months and only now are starting to feel bad, I'd expect that you have some kind of mental disorder. That line about how he should respect you because you're a girl cracked me up. I hope that was your intention. I don't care if you're a girl, a woman or the virgin mary. He has EVERY right to not only get mad but hate you from now to eternity.
I would.
2007-01-02 12:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by supermeng2004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has every right to know and will find out eventually,we always do.And yes he has every right to be mad and should actually dump you,it's up to him.A cheater never quit's cheating!If you want to keep cheating then don't get involved with a man whom you call a boyfriend.If you don't have a boyfriend then you can be a s*l*u*t* and answer to nobody.You will never gain his trust again,and have no idea what this does to someone who love's you.I was done the same way and tried to make it work but only drove us both insane and I dumped her,but not before she became pregnant.Is it mine,the jury is still out on that one.He is beautiful though and hope he belongs to me.You really are a monster,sorry but the truth does hurt.
2007-01-02 12:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by harleyman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does have the right to be mad at you. Why would you think otherwise? You are cheating on him. If he was cheating on you wouldn't you think that you have the right to be mad at him?
My best advice for you, that I can give is just tell him the truth, take the screaming and hatred that he is going to show toward you, and let him move on with his life and you continue doing whatever it is with the other guy. Your boyfriend doesn't desire to be treated this way. No person does. Try to do the right thing.
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!
2007-01-02 12:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to earn respect and so far you have not
earned yours, and yes your boyfriend has all the rights
to be mad because of the situation you put him in by
cheating on him. Evidentally you are not ready for a
steady relationship with anyone as you are passing the
time with other men. And as far as you getting married
you are definately not ready for that type of committment.
You need to talk to your boyfriend and be honest with
him because if you want to truly change then make a
committment to do so and show him that you truly do
care about him as actions talk louder than words, and
if you are not ready then best to leave him alone and
do what you do best.
2007-01-02 12:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him and he doesn't get mad, then something is wrong with him. Cheating on a guy for 6 months is a reason to break up. If you tell him, don't expect to ever speak to him again.
2007-01-02 12:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by crissy9683 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure u already know the kind of answer's u are going to get. And yes he has every right to be mad. If you have been faithful then yas u deserve respect. But treating him like that , the only thing u deserve is to be dumped.
2007-01-02 12:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would call the pest control and tell them that you have a problem with chaging the toilet paper roll.....
and then you should play the song "unfaithful" (by rhianna) and then sing along and then do an interpretive dance and see if he catches on
and then if he doesnt... you should say no.. "because i dont want our kids to have your DNA.. because your clueless"
and then kick him out and have fun with the LOVEd one you cheated on <3333
AND SO YOU KNOW
you have violated the christian religion with cheating on a siginigcant other.... I AM MAD AT YOU
and
I AM THE BOY WHO WANTS TO MARRY YYOU
2007-01-02 12:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to respect yourself.
He has every right to know what you have done and he has a right to hate you for it.
One time is a forgivable transgression, but since you have continued with different men you are deserving no respect from him or anyone else.
2007-01-02 12:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you be mad if your boyfriend was cheating on you for 6 months? Enough said!!!!
2007-01-02 12:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by beauty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋