This could apply to the man of your dreams if you are a woman.
I have met 2 over the last year the first one was married and had 2 children.... I liked her and she liked me enough to cheat on her husband, but I didn't because I respect marriage. The 2nd I just met and she is perfect, but the situation is impossible.
Tell me about yours.
2007-01-02 12:11:34 · 23 answers · asked by Jace 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dream a new dream!
2007-01-02 12:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by So lyrical 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew a man that was like that towards me and he felt that he found the woman of his dreams but we lived far away from each other I also felt that way long ago and I had to face facts that it was just a dream a silly pipe dream, I already have someone and I should be happy and satisfied about that....But he was not happy and I felt bad for him, he would often say he wish that he would have met me before my husband but I would always tell him that it wasn't his time or place to meet me and that is they way it goes.
2007-01-02 12:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't be hanging with married women.
2) If this other gal is so great...and feels the same way about you, is single and available...nothing on the planet would keep you from her. Not distance, not her family, not your family, not a WAR in the middle of her village with bullets flying overhead. So obviously, she is the woman of your DREAMS ONLY, not your one-true-love. Nothing would keep you from that. Sometimes, people come up with excuses to keep themselves from committing. Having a woman of your dreams who lives a million miles away on top of a volcano, is an easy excuse for you not to get involved with anybody else.
2007-01-02 12:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesh. there is this girl. We have met face to face before. We now just talk via email and phone. She tells me about her troubles and stuff she deals with and I wish I could be there for her. If anything to support her. She lives at least 5 hours south of me and is moving to an entirely different state. However, I plan on continuing to stay in contact and keeping her in my prayers.
I always thought of myself as a weirdo for this. Maybe I am. Oh well.
ps.
Women of my dreams? I don't really dream that often.
2007-01-02 12:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Noodles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your're referring to visual references only. Technically (and pardon me for being so anal), you can't truthfully say these are "women of your dreams" because you don't really know them at all. Plus, there's only ONE "woman of your dreams". If you have way more than one then you're just a horny perv like me. If you're only going by appearance, there's 2 million "women of my dreams" on this Earth, 1,999,957 of which I'll never meet. No matter the "babe", there's some guy somewhere who's sick of her sh*t. They can't all be the true woman of your dreams. But I hope you'll meet another one, who you can marry and enjoy life with, live happily ever after, etc. etc. etc.
2007-01-02 12:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by gabound75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't get into the details here.. but it reminds me of that song by Dan England and John ford coley...listen to it here....
http://www.geocities.com/bjaes.geo/lyrics/sadto.htm
Not sure what makes the second situation so impossible...but do you think that you could explore the possibilites via a long distance relationship for a few months to see if she really is the one.
If so maybe you can make plans to move there or she can move to where you are.
GOOD LUCK
and hang in there...you will meet someone soon, the third time is a charm!
2007-01-02 12:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are picking people you can't have on purpose. Look at your role in this - why did you settle for an affair in the first place (woman 1)? Maybe you really don't want a committed relationship to begin with. Just something to consider.
2007-01-02 12:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey's uncle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha
my wife was the same
she was married in new york with two kids
and i a college student in cali
haha what else better huh?
well her husband and her never loved int he relationship but cause of the kid they married
her youngest was like 3 years old
when i meet her
and we talked for 2 years when i want finally done with college
we loved for 2 years and miles apart
we loved cause we believed
i visited her in new york, help her go through a divorce ( i was her lawyer)
and well now we live in cali with both kids
right over the ocean like how she always dreamed of
so pick one
and put all your trust in them and all your love in them
then nothing can stand in your way
2007-01-02 12:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i fell in love with Mila Jovavich when i saw the movie the 5th Element for the first time. I was just 16. Tragic, i was absolutely shattered when i found she was married to the director Luc Beeson.
2007-01-02 12:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by trysssa999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jace - analyze this...you are attracted to married women because you have a commitment phobia. Give yourself a chance to meet someone who is single, unattached. Stop fantasizing and get your own life, not intrude on someone elses. Bad boy!
2007-01-02 12:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, I am going through it right now. The one I am seeing is afraid to commit. It is over two years too, but I am going to put an end to it, I am tired of waiting for her to make up her mind. My best advice is to find someone local, the distance is to much to handle.
2007-01-02 12:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋