I met this person on the net about a year ago, and the 1st time he IMed me i ignored him but for some reason my messenger didn't add him to my iggy bin.So,he kept IMing me and i kept making up things ,blah blah lol.Anyways i gave in and went out with him even though he lived far away from me and we fell in love atleast i think we did...it's kinda confusing because we started having problems when i found out he knew my friend and started talking to her online and flirting with her but,of course i confronted him about it he didn't denie it and he admited he screwed up.I broke up with him a couple months later after he came back from visting his fam but i told him it was me not him...but i felt down deep inside it was his fault ,but now im thinking maybe i made a mistake even though it might sound cheesy cuz it was just internet love but i think it could be something more or maybe not...but im not sure if i should go back to him and try to work it out 4 us?
2007-01-02 12:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do yourself a BIG favour and DUMP him, if he acts like this already then whats he going to be like when you`ve been together for a while.
You want someone who`s mad about you and only you, sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to get there though.
DON`T SELL YOURSELF SHORT!!!
All the best of luck to you from the UK.
2007-01-02 12:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met him in person yet?
If he asks to meet you for the first time, make sure you do it in a public place, and do not let him get you alone. Even if you "love" him, you have to remember he could still be a fat creepy 55-year-old rapist. Even if you show up to your meeting place and find that he's a hot young guy, do not follow him somewhere alone because he could be about to lead you into a gang rape.
As for the love... this guy is a long distance away, and since you're not positive you're in love anyway, you should just give it up. It sounds like it would take a lot of effort to work out, and if you're both young, it's very unlikely to last anyway. If you're really not sure, then you're not totally in love.
2007-01-02 22:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what to do, but let me know how you get on. I'm going to meet a girl I've met through the net next month, and I'm all excited about it. I've never met anyone that way before, and she seems really nice.
2007-01-02 20:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhmmmm , I'm not sure. I'm meeting a guy I met on here next month when he gets home and I'm quite excited. He's from the same city and he seems great!!!! He's actually answered your question too!!!! ( 2legsmalone) haha. Let me know how you get on though xx
2007-01-03 06:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just blank him out ya sound too nice for him get ya self some nice scooterboy to ease the pain dont be so daft cumbrian boys are the best and pick the star sign tauraus
2007-01-02 20:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by lorraine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
internet love is never as good as tru rl love....go out and find urself a boyfriend who you can talk to without the keyboard!
2007-01-02 21:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. Muster up your store of self-respect, screw your courage to its sticking place, and steer clear of that man whose first, middle, and last names all spell trouble.
2007-01-02 20:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by NYMaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if you should or not, i think that the best option is to just meet people in person
2007-01-02 20:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not lovemits happen to me,you can fall inlove over the net.u have to see people reactions,physical,u know.eye to eye contact, to really know what you feel!
2007-01-02 20:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Curiouz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that bloke, if he cared for you sweetheart he wouldnt be flirting with anyone but you. if he loved you , you would rock his world its as simple as that
2007-01-02 21:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Shaun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋