I've been cheating on my boyfriend for the past 6 months. I have sex with several different guys in a week, and my boyfriend doesn't even know. I'm sure he isn't cheating on me, because I did some investigating to make sure he wasn't, and today he said he really loves me and he wants to get married some day. Now I feel really bad. What do I do? ??????? Tell him or just stop cheating or just dump him??
2007-01-02 12:00:00 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica - AKA - Carolina Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're cheating on him he's apparently not someone who is keeping your interest. It would be unfair to continue a relationship like this, you will simply cause him more pain if he does find out. I would suggest you muster together some courage & just let him go without telling him the cheating part.
You don't want to imasculate him even more by telling him you've been cheating on him.
2007-01-02 12:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by NautyRN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(from a male) - it's obvious you shouldn't marry him simply because you cheat on him...if you cheat on him with "several" different guys in a "week" then you need to change also because you're disrespecting your self. If you were to tell him the relationship would end anyways so either way the relationship is over, even if it isn't over with yet.
(from a female) - 6 months?!?!?! It has obviously been over for you for a while then...you dont go lookin to cheat unless there is something seriously wrong with the relationship...this man obviously doesnt make you happy if you are looking to cheat....so marriage....wow..totally outta the question!!! should you tell him? hell yeah you should tell him...you owe at least that to him. "Several" guys tho....he may "really love you" but you dont really love him!
2007-01-02 12:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Silly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first: Stop cheating! Ask your self are you ready to be in a relationship with anyone. Maybe the reason your cheating is because your not ready to be in a relationship. If you love this guy, you wouldn't cheat on him multiple times. Perhaps you just don't want to be alone. Many girls have this problem, as did I. Try being single, you might like it better than being in a relationship. If you love him and know you would never hurt him again then stay with him. Just remember divorces are expensive.
2007-01-02 12:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U had better do something before u end up on a talk show special like JERRY SPRINGER or Maury Povich tryin to figure out who ur baby's daddy is....Might as well just tell the man u cheated...if u don't tell him he's gonna find out eventually...and its gonna be 10x's worse hearing it from someone else other than u...good luck
2007-01-02 12:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by patientpisces2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating you skanky hoe. Geez, how many diseases would you be carrying and possibly passing onto your boyfriend. Tell him and let him dump you for the tramp that you are. He has a right to know and the right to dump your sloppy ***.
Why don't you try prostituting? You could make some money by doing what you love.
SKANK!!!!
2007-01-02 12:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him the truth and own up to your mistakes. If you have no intention of changing, be honest with that too, and break up with him. Understand that he will be hurt no matter what you do, but it is much better coming from you. He would be humiliated publicly if it came from an outside source. If you care at all about him, you will give him honesty, before the truth comes out anyway, and trust me ~ it will.
2007-01-02 12:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he has no idea shame on him. And, Once a cheat always a cheat. You like variety why would you get married?
2007-01-02 12:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Danthony 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you and him need to break up before you give him a disease. It's only fair. I wouldn't imagine that you're gonna quit cheating anytime soon. And as time goes by, he'll only love you more, so now is the time to break up with him. You owe that to him.
2007-01-02 12:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanted to be with him you wouldnt of cheated on him. I think you should tell him and go on from there.
2007-01-02 12:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should stop cheating for your own safety. Haven't you heard of AIDS, herpes or chlymadia? (to name a few)
You owe it to your boyfriend to tell him the truth.
You owe it to yourself to grow up, quit acting like a cat in an alley and start respecting yourself and those you're in a "relationship" with.
Good luck -
2007-01-02 12:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋