2007-01-02 11:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cos the men make it hard with their playin n lies.thats why i dont do relationships anymore cos then u cant get hurt.
2007-01-02 12:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we are nevert taught how to handle them, are we? Sure there is plenty of advice when they go wrong but we simply are not prepared for them like the way we are taught to brush our teeth, write a letter or ride a bike. But the unique thing about relationships being so difficult is that they have to be a two way thing to be a success .... and that means forever! And with two way interaction being the key, you only need one party to fail and the rot sets in. Things seldom flow well in two directions 100% of the time simply because we are human and therefore fickle by nature and design ..... things such as 'give and take' or 'having to workl at it' all spring to mind and while we say we recognise that, we seldom show the necessary commitment, either through pride, vanity or sheer idleness. Emotional commitment is far harder than phsyical commitment ..... and we always fail to see the error of our ways until it's too late. If only we would be more honest with our partners and ourselves, relationships would be so much easier.
This is a simple question ... but a great question!
2007-01-02 12:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are about six billion people on planet Earth, and each one, is a complicated person.
Their backgrounds, their thought processes, their religion, their tastes in music, art, books, etc, are all different.
Take two total strangers, even if many of their believes and likes are the same, the fact that they are male and female, makes them getting together a rough challenge.
The fact that millions, or billions do get together, is almost a miracle.
The good news is that we do, but it's not easy, and never will be. To form a relationship and keep it going over the years, requires work and effort to keep it intact.
2007-01-02 12:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if they were going to be easy then everyone would be happy and that is the truth.....A relationship is never really easy and it is not going to be either just because you think that it is suppose to be easy....There is nothing easy in this world and that is the real deal.
2007-01-02 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ever since eve gave adam the apple its always been the same its just yhe way its meant to be
2007-01-02 12:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by lorraine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c they involve men.:)) Sorry, had to be said. Seriously, c/ emotions are involved, and that makes it easier to get hurt.
2007-01-02 12:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are humans and we make mistakes...lack of contentment is also a factor..
nevertheless, it feels great to be in love!
2007-01-02 14:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you put heart into them.
2007-01-02 12:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're all hard! but its the reson they're worth it
2007-01-02 12:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by cindy d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋