I'm 18, almost 19, and have NEVER had a relationship before. Guys have asked me out from time-to-time, but I'm just not into them. Most girls get boyfriends during high school, but I've never had that. I don't know...maybe I'm just too picky. Is that normal?
2007-01-02 11:42:23 · 24 answers · asked by Bria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I think it would be a lot worse to be a whore that puts out for anything with a pulse that passes by.
2007-01-02 11:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls have had a relationship that has lasted months or even a year by the time they were 18. When you're in highschool you experience so much. That is the best time. When you get to college you are still experiencing but most people start looking for their true love. It is normal to be picky. Every guy I have ever dated has never had all of the qualities I wanted. I am kind of picky too. But you still have lots of time left to experience.
2007-01-02 19:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by msaquarius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, its good to be picky! You dont want some guy, you want a good guy. Wait till that guy that takes your breath away and gives you butterflies asks you out....thats one that I wish I went out with, instead it was set up between friends and wasn't that great. Wait till you find one that has similar interests, that always helps.
The guy I'm dating now didn't have his first girlfriend till he was 19. My first was when I was 16, but it wasn't a good relationship and didn't last long. My first serious one, where I really cared about the guy didn't happen till I was 19 either. There is more stuff to do when you are older, and it gets better.
Picky is good. You shouldn't have the need to rush.
Hope that helped a little
2007-01-02 19:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you want one relationship that will last well that is good thing but a very hard thing if not imoposible cause having a relationship in younger age makes you pripared for the future and real life it gives you ways how to be perfect and to chose the pefect person you want for your self any ways it is not a big deal not to have a boy friend even if you are pased the age of 21 not only 18 so relax and chose the person you want
2007-01-02 19:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun i didn't have my first bf till i was 19 not a one be for then. maybe we are both picky but i refuse to lower my standards and now that I'm not in high school and I'm in places with mature adults I've had relationships.
2007-01-02 19:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. im also 18 and never had a boyfriend (ive never even been to a date!) you're right when you said that most girls get boyfriends during high school but that doesnt mean all of them get one. maybe we're looking for something else...something more. let's just dont rush. our right guy will come...
2007-01-02 19:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! I got married at 28. You are WAY to young to be thinking in getting in to a serious relationship. Have fun, travel, do what ever you want out of life. You have plenty of time to settle down!
2007-01-02 19:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by RT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is that you havent found the right person yet. And it also depends if you were looking. To find a good relationship you have to look also. you cant just exspect it to walk onto your doorstep. And sometimes it takes time to find that one and only. Just keep your eyes out looking and dont fret about having a b/f. he will come
2007-01-02 19:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is making a bunch of silly teenage mistakes.
If you're not up for it, don't play. Romance will be there when you're ready to play, I guess. The only thing is, you won't have the experience that comes with silly teenage mistakes.
Some of that experience is vastly overrated, though :)
Good luck, do your own thing at your own pace.
2007-01-02 19:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its fine, take as long as you like to get serious. At 18 guys are only useful for abit of fun anyway!
2007-01-02 19:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by 132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you're only 18. don't compare yourself to other people either. people develop at different stages, don't rush into things just because other people are doing it. that's how people get in debt. brrrrrrrr. okay those 2 don't relate, but don't try to keep up with the joneses in the relationship area. go at your own pace. be debt free.
2007-01-02 19:45:26 · answer #11 · answered by Debt Free! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋