This guy and I kinda went out for 5 mo. but said we were "just friends" cuz neither of us wanted anything serious since he'd be moving away. He did move and it was hard cuz i was attached but later I got over it and moved on....so not it's been 6 mo. and he moved back and kept asking when we can hang out agian. So we finally hung out a few weeks ago and it was like we'd been together all along and he started kissing me and making out and it all went great but now he's only texted me twice since then to say hi. I'm upset cuz he's a jerk to make out with me and then not talk to me for 2 weeks. Should I contact him or just leave him alone???
2007-01-02 11:37:07 · 16 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be open, tell him how you feel and see if he has any reasons for the way he;s acting. maybe he dosnt want to get too close cos he dosnt wanna lose you again or whatnot. basically my advice: find out what the deal is so you can make a fair decision, rather than jumping to conclusions :)
2007-01-02 11:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact him. He loves you (i beleive) When u call him, he doesnt pick up ur phone? Or he does? Well if hes not talking to you or anything he might be having a good time over there...not with a new person just like yea having fun. So i think you shud find him and something and like yea explain how u feel.
2007-01-02 19:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by jas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you he would'nt be avoiding you. There is a problem here and it looks like the best way to resolve it is too leave him be and go on with your life.
Sooner or later he will contact you and that is when you just lay it on the line.
2007-01-02 19:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to waste your time with this loser. It seems he got what he wanted, and moved on.
He's not worth your time or emotions.
Just be grateful, you found out, what he is really like. Just be more cautious with your next boy friend.
2007-01-02 19:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aparently he's just using u or something.What's weird is if he came back to just get to make out with u i suggest u stay away from him.There is a possibality he might be using u and seeing another girl that's why he's not talking to u.I would try to tell him that if your gonna love me then u need to start talking to me more.If he feels like u do maby he'll stop.Maby he dosent know he's doing that.I would talk to him.Good luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-02 19:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...wait for him to call you shouldnt be trying to beg him. And if he dosent call you in a long time well then forget about him. But just give it some time, maybe he needed to think things over.
2007-01-02 19:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend not to care, and find another guy to hang out with.
2007-01-02 19:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by alluremn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text back...but wait for about 1 week....if he text you back right away then that means he was just been busy....but if he didnt, that means HE IS a jerk!
2007-01-02 19:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for a while best of luck and have a happy new year!
2007-01-02 19:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Hex Tropetor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here all along i thought this was treatment reserved only for me from women
2007-01-02 19:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋