The problem is that he no longer seems to trust me and listens to BS that some of his acquaintences say about me which are either untrue or exaggeratted. I then let him treat me badly and wind up doing something nice for him to "make up " for it - even though I have done nothing to "make-up" for. I know that I need to stop this behavior, but cant figure out if he is using me or not. He still owes me about $10 grand from various loans - so I am not sure if I am keeping him around so i make sure i get paid. We have a lot in common and have a great time together most of the time. I have been single for almost 2 years now and have not come close to finding someone i am into as much as i am into this one guy. i would be devistated if i lost him again, but cant seem to prove to him that i am loyal and can be trusted. HELP!
2007-01-02 11:35:53 · 2 answers · asked by Looking4Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always remember why you broke up in the first place when deciding to get back with an ex. For example, my best friend from highschool got back with her ex last year. They broke up because their mothers couldn't agree on things for the wedding. Both mothers are still alive. Things weren't any better.
As far as the money goes...has he paid any of the money back? How long has it been? Are you surviving ok without it? (not sure of your financial situation. For some people, this would be a true hardship, for others, it's pocket change) Weigh the evidence and decide if you could write it off as an "educational experience" and/or move on.
2007-01-02 11:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is using you. in time you will find someone else. leave him now while you still can.
2007-01-02 19:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋