My friends said that they seen my b/f with another girl in lunch. But when i confronted him about it he says it wasnt true. And so I though nothing of it. then a couple days later my friends said they seen him holding hands and u confront him about that and he says hes not lying theres only you. always will be. and now you are woried that he might be lying to your face and you cant let go. what do I do?
2007-01-02 11:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are these the same friends saying these things each time? If it is, then consider the possibility that they may be lying and try to figure out why they might want to do that.
2007-01-02 11:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to tell but can become too late to salvage. Tell him first, stressing the importance it being a mistake that will never happen again. Let him know you you are not hiding anything else nor will you be. What might happen is he will think what other skeletons is she hiding and once the trust is gone the love will rot. Tell him every little detail, hold him if he will let you and listen to his feelings about the whole thing. If your love is strong enough then you learned real quick how strong and without a really nasty affair, just a kiss. You can ask him if there is anything you can do to make it up to him which will show him how much you love him.
2016-05-23 08:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat him to the punch... Drop him before he drops you. If you let him go...in his mind he'll always wonder why and then you'll have him just where you want him. That is if you really want him... Otherwise, continue to date him knowing he's a liar and he'll only end up dumping you... Don't confront him any more. Tell him you don't want to see him anymore and he will feel free to hang out with the new girl, which then will prove what your friends have been telling you all along... He's playing you.
2007-01-02 11:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hmm...tough one hehe umm well first things first you got to SEE him the the other girl first....and second dont get mad at your friends if he lies ok!thats a BAD start with yur friends and can end up very bad....and when u see him with the other girl (if there is a girl) go up to them and say somthing like"what r u doing with her!!" and then well break up you really need a b/f that u can trust otherwise if you do forgive him he might do it again and think of it yur not going to dedicate to a b/f like that r u ???
2007-01-02 11:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by chococat_cutie12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule of thumb, guys lie period. It was like that when I was young and will be like that 100 years from now. But it comes down to believe him or get rid of him.
2007-01-02 11:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say i know you are lying! my friends saw you........ do you love me! do you care that you are doubl dating me! do you care about how many hours i think about you!
you gotta be creative
if you to love each other then you will work it out
2007-01-02 11:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by ★ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to catch him in the act
2007-01-02 11:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by TheBigCheese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think..do your friends like this guy? how long have you guys been friends? Do they usally tell you the truth?
2007-01-02 11:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out who the other girl is and ask your guy what he'd think if you asked her whats up..if he gets nervous or defensivly angry..dump him. think "who has something to gain by telling me this "
2007-01-02 11:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him happy new year
2007-01-02 11:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hex Tropetor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋