how do i get boys to write me messages. im kinda shy and i dont know what to write. what can i write? my sister always writes messages and when she meets a boy, he usually would ask for her celphone number but not mine even if im right there. i sometimes feel sooo unloved.
2007-01-02 11:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As they say, the ball is in your court. What you have to do, is find a boyfriend, and get his cell phone number and test message him. He'll reply, and you are all set.
Don't worry about what to write, ask your sister, it's like anything else, it needs practice.
Ask him if he has seen a movie, or heard a song, or read a book, or what happened in school. I'm sure you are curious about boys, ask what his favorite sport is, his hobbies.The list is endless.
Why don't you practice with your sister's cell, or other girlfriends. That way you can practice, and you will get better, the more you do it.
2007-01-02 11:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this should help :)
In school you are likely to sit next to boysGo to school--this is a good place to overcome your boy-shyness. Maybe you will end up sitting next to a boy in your class or you will get to work on a project with him. Just imagine he is one of your friends and keep breathing slowly if you become embarrassed or shy.
Join clubs. You will meet more people and feel confident!
Remember, you have nothing to worry about so just go up and talk to a boy, any boy. Little by little, you will find that you are not so shy around boys anymore!
A great way to talk with boys from your class or clubs is via instant messenger such as MSN or AIM. Its a lot less scary than talking face to face and it will help you build up your friendship so that it is easier to talk when you next see each other.
Go up to a boy your age that you see. Choose one at random. Start up a conversation. if you blow it, you have made your mistakes with a boy you don't particularly care about. But if it goes great, maybe you will make a new friend. In any case, you will learn a little something about communicating with boys and this will help you to build up your confidence.
2007-01-02 19:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EXPECT MEN TO WRITE THIS DAYS THEY DON'T FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT THEY ARE SCARE OF MESSY PEOPLE
2007-01-02 19:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋