I really like this guy and hes my friend. I think he likes me but im not sure. I really wanna tell him that i like him but what if he doesnt like me and doesnt wanna be my friend?
2007-01-02 11:22:36 · 23 answers · asked by Mad Maddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it..
2007-01-02 11:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by bossman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why women are so emotional, I don't know, but they tend to over think things out. What if, t his, what if that.
This guy is your friend, already. You won't lose him by telling him, that you like him.
Sit down over a meal or just a cup of coffee, and tell him what you feel. Don't make a big deal of it, just do it casually.
He may like you as a friend, not as a girlfriend, but those things happen. But at least you will know were you stand with him.
Then you can move on to some other guy. On the other hand, he may feel the way you do, so it's a win, win situation.
Just do it.
2007-01-02 19:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked that same question to a guy I liked that was my friend. If he likes you then he'll tell you. If he doesn't then he'll break it to you gently and keep being your friend. My friend was in college and when he came back for Christmas break I freaked out. What if he acted weird around me and didn't want to hang out? but he wasn't like that at ALL he's still the same old guy I liked in the first place. and you never know he may say no at first to see how you react to it so he knows your character better and then realize that your the girl he always wanted and you'll both live happily ever after.
2007-01-02 19:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by niende89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is how much do you like this quy and is it worth taking the risk? If you like him and he's a decent guy letting him know you are interested in changing the relationship won't hurt you. If he's interested it could be the best thing if he's not then then he'll let you know and still be your friend. You have nothing to lose really only gain! Hope this helps.
2007-01-02 19:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first find out if he likes you,...read below to find out if he likes you,,,,then if he does ask him out :) GOOD LUCK
One of the easiest ways to know if a guy likes you is if he gives you quick glances and stares at you every so often. Watch him and if he looks at you quite often from time to time, HE LIKES YOU!
If you are hanging out with a guy you usually don't hang out with and that could be a possible boyfriend, the guy that likes you will become interested and will stare at you and the guy you are hanging out with. If he is the bold type he might try to become involved with the two of you which definitely means he likes you!!!
If he talks to your friends a lot he probably likes you.
If he tries to be near you and suddenly takes an interest in things you like, he likes you.
If he talks to you and acknowledges you in some way, this is a sure sign he likes you!
If he tries to make you laugh or says stuff sarcastically that he thinks is funny, again he most likely likes you.
Lastly, if he is nervous around you, he likes you.
2007-01-02 19:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. I marry the guy that was my friend in 3 days! Sometimes you have to take that chance. If he stops being your friend because you like him, then he has a lot of growing up to do.
2007-01-02 19:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by ukerin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes really your friend he will still want to be your friend. Maybe he feels the same, maybe he doesnt. But u will never know if you don't say something, and if the feeling isnt mutual just be chill about it.
2007-01-02 19:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know unless you tell him.
If he's your friend why would he stop being your friend if he doesnt have the same feelings as you to.
Try.
Good luck!
2007-01-02 19:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! that was me like a month ago, and now he's ask me out like tomorrow, you need to take a risk because you never know how absolutely perfect things could turn out, and i was just like you, and then my friend told him i liked him and it turns out he liked me too, and if he doesn't he's not a real friend if he stops being your friend over something stupid like that
2007-01-02 19:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Freckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him and i mean love him, so take ur chance and take the 1st step to him, better than staying all ur life thinking if he loves u or not, or think after that it could be too late why didn't i take my chance, tel him it will be better in both cases, if he loves u, u will know and he will know and both of u will be happy, if not then u will know that he doesn't love u and u get him out of ur mind and starting over ur trip to find ur true love, and be sure that there is someone out there is the one who will love u that never he loves b4 and u will love him more than anything in ur life. just take the chance to figure out.
2007-01-02 19:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by haddad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuo said he's your friend. Even if he doesn't feel comfortable going out with you, he will still be your friend. But I think if he doesn't have another girlfriend he will want to be your boyfriend!
2007-01-02 19:25:31 · answer #11 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋