I'm commited to not date until I find the "one" and even then he's going to have to wait until after college. So how do I act around guys that aren't commited like that to keep them from trying to get me to go out with them before I'm ready?
2007-01-02 11:12:53 · 14 answers · asked by niende89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just need to tell them you are not interested. I think that although most college age guys can be a little thick at times a flat out statement like that would convince them you don't want to be bothered. There are so many girls that age that are desperate to date that I don't think you will have much of an issue.
2007-01-02 11:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!! ok so how do u think that you are going to find "the one" if u never date anybody? That seems counter-productive. U NEED to date people so u can get a feel for different types of people.
U don't need to sleep with the guys... but holding off on DATING anybody until a) after college and b) until u find the one is going to end up back-firing in your face.
2007-01-02 11:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you know who is the one if you don't date? If you are just not wanting to date until after you finish college, just say that.
2007-01-02 11:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how do you know that they're not the one, you have even tried, and you need the experience so you can be a great girlfriend when you DO find the one. and sometimes you can find the one by getting to know people better, don't turn away if you think they aren't automatically
2007-01-02 11:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here.... btw, people, lots of my friends have found "the one" without dating around. It's entirely possible.
how do you act? Be yourself and don't flirt. If they want to go out with you and you aren't flirting, that's their problem... if they ask you, say no.
2007-01-02 19:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by misschelty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not dating, you will never find the one, because you will never get to know anyone well enough to know.
2007-01-02 11:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them and be friendly and when they gets serious just say sorry I have other goals and I not interested right now.
2007-01-02 11:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a chastity belt,and tell them that your dad is hulk hogan
2007-01-02 11:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know if she is or isnt "the one" unless you try her out? date then deside.
2007-01-02 11:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by coolys_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. something tells me it will send the guys running.
2007-01-02 11:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋