Okay so i found this girl who i really like and hooked up with her on New years eve, prior to this we had talkd on aol extensively and we both sai we like each other, but in school the day after new years day, i wasnt really sure if she still liked me, we agreed to continue hooking up, but were not "going out" yet. Before we hooked up she seemed really into me, now not so much. Im insecure if she no longer is interested in me and i dont know what to do? I fear if i confront her and pressure her to say she likes me or be too upfront ill drive her away, but I really like her so i really want to know if she still likes me? What should i do?
2007-01-02 11:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, careful with the words "hooked up." To most people that means more than what I think you mean. Much more. (Maybe not, I can be niave at times.)
You may have been nervous around her or maybe she just didn't really enjoy herself with you. Maybe you didn't hit it off as well as you think you did. It's not that huge of a deal. If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you. Move on.
2007-01-02 11:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by tryingmybest79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably just nervous since it was the first time that you guys saw each other after hooking up. If you want to actually date her, then u better not treat as just a hook up... just be honest that you want her to be more than a hook-up. She will then tell u either way whether or not she wants to be more than a "friends with benefits" thing. if she doesnt want to date you, stop hookin up with her and find a new girl.
2007-01-02 11:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! ok here is what you do scince im a girl i know. first make sure you get her attention. then you go over and talk to her but don't act nervous act like its normal. then when ever you see her high five her. then talk again another day. then ask if she and her friends want to do something together. NOT A DATE. then start texting if you already haven't. then keep talking. then when you think you are ready go for it!
2016-05-23 07:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and show her that you are still interested. Once you feel more comfterable and comfidient, ask her out on a romantic date. Get her the nice boque of flowers, pick her up at her house, go to dinner and a movie. Just show her that you are still interested.
2007-01-02 11:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope when you use the phrase "hooking up," you are not referring to sex. Sex creates people, and it's very serious. You could also get any number of STDs by sleeping around.
Better make sure you and this girl are truly serious before you do any more hooking up.
2007-01-02 11:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmm i think u r riding a rocket and she's riding a horse.
u been thinking after hooking with her make more relationship but on her it's different. sometimes got time to cooling down as wat u noticed.
just pretend as normal and go talk to her oftenly then u will notice what ever u wanted to know.
goodluck.
2007-01-02 11:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live is to short, take action but do it the smart way, she could be waiting you sign. Yes it could turn out she doesn't but at least you will know.
2007-01-02 11:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by dieder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and find out if she still likes you. Their is no point waiting, if you can just ask her.
2007-01-02 11:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rool with it. if she's spending time with you, she like you. or at least like you enough. don't be insecure or suffocating.
2007-01-02 11:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel about her
2007-01-02 11:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋