My husband has cut my monthly income from $700 to $500, he signed a paper stating that he would cont. to give me $700 a month until our divorce or his discharge from the army. who do i call to get him to pay the $700 that we agreed to? I also take care of our 8month old daugther
2007-01-02 11:08:34 · 9 answers · asked by amber luvzguydixon 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
base adjutant?or write a letter to his CO?
2007-01-02 11:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact his commanding officer... BAH is intended to provide housing for his dependent's, your not divorced so you are entitled to it, and they will normally force him to pay you through an allotment in his pay especially with an 8 month child involved... That is a dirty thing that he did.. good luck with this.
Also try to contact the legal office on base.. It doesn't matter if the note is notarized, BAH is to provide living quarters for you and your daughter, not for him to put in his pocket.
2007-01-02 20:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by pichonkr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hire a family law attorney and would probably have to file contempt charges against him in civilian court. The Army isn't going to get involved. This is a private matter between you and him. If you get a court order, The Army will enforce it. But it won't help you get it.
2007-01-02 23:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his Commanding Officer. From what I remember when someone else got divorced they had to pay the entire amount of BAH until they divorced.
2007-01-02 20:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the paper he signed a court order? Or, if not, was it witnessed and notarized? If not you're SOL!! If it's a legal document, contact his Commanding Officer through his First Sergeant. Believe me, the military will make him pay up.
2007-01-02 19:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dealing with the military for 3 years now you need to go and contact jag, the commander and everyone else will just get on to him or could be covering for him. Jag office should be on the base he is located. Tell them the dilema and they will take care of it.. if anything they will sue him for the money and you will get it all. Hope I helped.
2007-01-03 00:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by armybrat529 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a POS... even if you are right... MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY!!!... nice time for a divorce b**ch.... get off your *** and do something besides trying to take the little money that man gets.. it happens to too many soldiers while they are out there... He doesnt have to give you anything... only a place to live and enough money to put something in your stomach(food) about $150 a month...if you choose not to live there.. its not his problem...
2007-01-02 19:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is in a legal paper You can go to his CO and talk to him. If it is not signed and notarized by a legal person you want get anything more. The military will make him pay you if it is the legal way.
2007-01-02 19:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a court order? as far as i know he only has to give you half of the BAH. call his CO or talk to the chaplain.
2007-01-02 19:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋