I need help.i kind of like this guy and it is really nice when he flirts.But, really hurtful any other time.
2007-01-02 11:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by kristench22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever I used the phrase, that they want their cake and eat it too . . . I usually get ridiculed by women because it is sexist . . . women in general is the perfect example for that phrase . . . . but that is off the topic . . . . Let's get back to your problem . . .
Do you know what this guy is doing? He likes you and finds you attractive . . . and he is only thinking of you in a sexual way. He flirts with you, and you feel soft and gooey inside . . . you think you like him. Yet he treats you like garbage from time to time . . . and you think why? Is it me? Do I have to change in order for him to treat me better?
Do you know what he is doing? He is eroding your self-confidence. He is weaking your resolved and your self of being. He is making it . . . so it would be easier to get you into the sack. In time, your mentality will be, if I sleep with him . . . he will treat me better. He is not . . . believe me . . . in fact, it may get worse. Especially, if you don't know anything about his past.
If you don't believe me . . . continue to go out with him . . . and if he continues, you get pregnant and he leaves, or even worse . . . remember my answer . . . you picked him. You already seen the signs and you continue to associate with him. He will not be the one to blame . . . you will have sole responsibility, he is already showing you who he is . . . if you ignore it . . . you're the one to blame. Be responsible and make the correct decision . . . dump him. You will not be able to change him . . . the only person who can change him . . . is himself.
2007-01-05 05:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste time with a guy who says he hates you?
2007-01-02 19:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a control thing. He's just trying make himself feel better by manipulating you.
Ignore him.
2007-01-02 19:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk who wants to have his cake and eat it too meaning that he probably does not want to be with you but he wants to have sex with you. Snub the loser and move on to bigger and better things if you get my drift. Good luck.
2007-01-02 19:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Laura L. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the very fact that he tells you he hates you is your answer right there..why would you want to associate yourself with someone who hates you and tells you? really now....save your energy and find someone who likes you and loves you...
2007-01-02 19:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Louisa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave him alone ,he had his chance and talking like that he'll never get a girl
2007-01-02 19:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by lilmis_94cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he hates you, that means he likes you
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2007-01-02 19:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by II II IIIII IIII III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋