My BF & I have been together for 3 months now, i really liked him when we meet but then he just started be rude & a jerk. He hates all of my friends, some of my family, he's really rude, & he thinks that turns me on. My BFF flirts with him all the time, when were all together its like im not there at all. My BFF hates him too. He goes for weeks not calling me, & when i call him he says he has to go or he's tired & doesnt feel like talking to me. WHEN he does feel like talking to me, the phone is dead silence. He's always mad & im just threw with him. I dont know how to break up with him though. & i really want to. HELP!!!
2007-01-02 10:46:36 · 15 answers · asked by celestcoley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for helping me guys!
2007-01-02 10:56:39 · update #1
My God, Just do it! Its as simple as that. Trust me I allowed breaking up for good after 3 1/2 years of on and off again crap. I wish I would have done it shortly after I knew him, like 6 months when he started acting like a jerk and I saw red flags. Don't look back and see how much time you may waste over someone like him, like I have. I am somewhat bitter now for allowing someone to treat me so badly.
2007-01-02 10:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel hes rude and that you deserve better and so does you friends and family! Tell him kindly and gently but be firm and make sure he doesn't find a way to change you mind. If he does and is still acting like his old self then start ignoring him he should get the hint to back off. If he treats you differently after he persuaded you to give him a second chance then well there might be something there...
2007-01-02 18:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him face to face that you don't think things are working out between you two. Don't put the blame on him, just tell him you don't think the two of you are a good match. He's going to be angry, but be firm about the fact that the relationship is over. I wish you luck.
2007-01-02 18:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him your rude and i really like u but if u dont start having some manners are rerelationship will have to end....or just say your a jerk and i don't like that im sorry but i think we need 2 move on if you dont know how to say it write it in a note. :) Hope i helped! :)
2007-01-02 18:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by britt1234:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A LOOSER HE IS......You don't have to break up. Just do yourself a great big favor and avoid him. You need a new, better and, respectful boyfriend. He is really bad news. You need a new bff too.
2007-01-02 18:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use words like "I feel we are not working out" or "I feel that we are not on the same page in life and I don't want to interrupt what you are doing"
Try to make it about why he should not be with you...very easy to get out of.
2007-01-02 18:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time you see him, tell him that you dont really can be happy. Tell him that you need something else than him. Tell him u need real LOVE and you dont want him anymore. tell him you wanna break up with him but still want to be friends.
2007-01-02 18:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your BFF hates him, why does she flirt with him? Be straight with him and say "I'm sick of your crap. It's over." What are you gonne do, wait 'til you're married with kids to end it?
2007-01-02 18:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have already broken up.
Your bff hates him and flirts with him. Strange.............
2007-01-02 18:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not Dr.Phil but i suggest u dump him if you feel you dont want to have you tried telling him what he does is making you feel bad.
2007-01-02 18:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋