me and this girl been dating from work. we have had alot of fun together and even had sex 8 times now.. she hasnt seen her boyfriend since thanksgiving cuz he is ditching her and rather goto the bars with his friend then come see her.. he lives 50 miles away from us. and he still calls her and she still puts puts up withthe ****.. i need help ontelling her, how she needs to make a choice.. or should i just leave italone? i really like her and she really likes me.. do you think i ruin our fun pal realtionship if i do this. im so confused on what to do. what should i say to her tonight when we are driving home to work? I really want her to choose. what should i say or do? help me please!!
2007-01-02 10:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by bidemlikeyougotem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can point out so many things that are wrong with this.
1. Never sleep with someone that has a boyfriend because if they can't break it off with the other person before they get involved with you then they will either never commit to you or they will do the exact same thing to you later on. She has to know exactly who she wants to be with and if she can't leave the boyfriend that is treating her like crap then you will be second best. Do you want to be second best? Hell no.
2. You tried to back off and she wouldn't let you because she said that she likes the attention. Couldn't see have worded it a little better? She could have said that she likes to be held and you do that and the other guy doesn't. Just the fact that she said that she likes the attention, makes her out to be an attention grabber with no other intentions for anything else. This sets you up to be hurt because maybe she doesn't like you for you but for the attention that you give her that she is lacking with the other guy.
3. There is an old saying, "you have to love yourself before you can love someone else", well the same goes for respect. If she doesn't respect herself enough then how can she respect you?
4. You need to back off and leave her alone and let her know that you mean business. If you want to be with her then you have to make it clear to her that she needs to make a choice between you and the other guy. If you let this crap that she is doing continue then she will think that she can get away with it and she won't stop anytime soon.
Good luck.
2007-01-02 10:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 08:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by armiso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dude If U have Been Havin Fun With Her And if Shes Been hanging Out With Tat Other Guy U Should So Dump Her And if that Were My Boyfriend i Would Kill Him!So Dump Her or Tell her She Needs To Straighten Out!
2007-01-02 10:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by soccersweetie0140 C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you can't be doing that anymore unless she makes a decision, the guy that lives 50 miles away or you, it might ruin the relationship you have with her now, it might make you just friends, or it might take the relationship to a new level
2007-01-02 10:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have feelings for this girl if she is F****ING you I tell her to dump the other guy and go with you and if she doesn't then more power to her for she is doing what a guy usually does which is having his cake and eating it too woo hoo GF LOL
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2007-01-02 10:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋