should I or not?

Question

ok so there was this guy I was supposed to fight and I didn't becuase I didnt even know the guy . he just came up to me one day. ok so I didnt meet him any where or anything to fight so he called me a ***** one day and I was like wtf? then later I relized I found that this kid had been telling people that i have been saynig **** about alot of people. so now I couldn't fight him just becuase he was pissed at me and I had nothing aginsit him. I hear his a pretty nice guy but getts into alot of fights. ok a month has passed . I now have a class with him every day of the week. Im not sure Iwhat to do. should I do? If I stay there I will probely fight him and get suspended. or If I don't fight him hell just call me ***** in fornt of everyone. I can switch out but If I do hell know it was becuase I dont want to fight him but I dont want to switch out. he has a reputation of being a very strong fighter. I presonally think I can take him. but no one seems to have faith in me.whatever

Answer 1

Catch him when he doesn't have an audience of friends around and ask him whats up then? If he speaks out then go off first and give it all you got . Other wise he'll likely back down if cornered by himself. Even if you were to lose if you make a good show he's not apt to try it again. I think you can take him , do as I said and your not likely to even have a fight he'll back off.

Answer 2

Do you really think here say is worth fighting over. Show some maturity and lose the macho mentality. Words don't mean nothing. is it really worth being suspended. Stop caring about what everybody else says. Are those people going to be there when your rent is due. Don't follow that guys lead. He ain't nothing but a bully. If you feel like u are being threaten then u must defend yourself. But if he is just trying to bait u then let it all blow over. he will find someone else to mess with. Tell an adult at school. He definitely already has some priors. So if it does come down to a fight you have already informed someone about it and you wont look bad.

Answer 3

This is probably just the adult in me saying this but my advice is to talk to him. You have to get him alone too, that's the key because whenever people are around their friends they tend to want to show off so if you try to talk to him with alot of people around then he'll probably try to fight you but if you get him alone and try to talk to him then he will probably talk to you without a problem. You should try and explain what happened and see if you can reach an agreement. If you hear that he is a nice guy then you could possibly become friends out of this. If you really want to fight him then go ahead but you'll have to live with the consequences. I've been in your position before and I know what it feels like but it will be over if you resolve the issue. Also don't afraid to defend yourself. If he walks up to you and hits you then you have the right to hit him back and you probably won't get into trouble. I'm a girl and I beat the crap out of another girl one day but she started it and I didn't get in trouble. This was when I was in the 8th grade though and I've long since been out of school. Do what you think is right.

Answer 4

if it were me, i would kick that jerks a s s. no doubt, but hey, i'm a girl AND vicious. so there.
but seeing the situation you're in, i would say you shouldnt. just sit back, and say 'so what if im a b i t c h? that's fine, coz you're an a s s h o l e.' (you should have seen the original name i had there for you to use, but it was too bad) just call him something just as horrible back. he wont like it, and he can either try to call you out and you can tell him that you're not a dip s h i t, and you wont do it. or he'll just keep calling you names.
if i didnt want to fight him, id just say 'so what? i AM a b i t c h.' but, again, i am a girl, and would consider that a compliment coz im a pain.

Answer 5

if you personally dont have anything against him then it's idiotic to even consider fighting him and i think it's better if you dont not because you might get beat but problems can be resolved through words a lot better than through fists so i'd say (if you havnt already) try arranging a meeting for the two of you to talk stress that you'd like to resolve it peacably and if that doesnt work then take it up with a counselor or talk to a couple of your friends and have them back you up against whatever he's saying just remember a peacable solution is always better then a fight

Answer 6

i come to a school where there are alot of fights and sometimes they dont get suspended switch out if u will get suspended or go infront of a judge like my new skool does if u get into even a prissy fight. and think bout wut ur parents will do to u if u get in a fight. do wut will be the best for u outside of skool not in skool especially if ur tryin to impress someone. if u dont want to look like a wuss stay clear of him in the class and dont say anything to or about him that will make everything worse.

Answer 7

dont think you can take him. just take him. if you think about him being easy to fight he will kick your butt cause you thought about it. Dont think, just do it. Learning to take a hit is more important than throwing a hit. protect your head and don't let him drag you to the ground. make body shots and go for the head when its avail. If you can't beat him don't let him knock you out and take it to a descision.

Yes, school fights are like boxing. Knockouts lose decisions are up to inturpritation.

Answer 8

Be honest with this guy. Tell him that none of the stuff he heard was true and that you don't want to fight him. If he's the nice guy you heard he was, he'll be cool with that.

Answer 9

Any chance of just talking to him one on one and clearing the air about the stuff he says you are saying about others?

If not, I hope you can just ignore it.

Good Luck!

Answer 10

I think you should go up to him & tell him if you do not stop massing with me I will tell the prancipal or I will call your mom .