ITS NOT THAT I DONT LOVE MY MAN BUT DAMN HAVE YOU SEEN HIS HOMIES OR MAYBE THAT GUY IN THE GROCERY STORE THERE ALL SO DAMN FINE AN PROLY SWEET TO BUT WILL I EVER KNOW OR DO I STAY AN JUST GO WITH WAT I KNOW AND NEVER LEAP INTO HAPPINESS AS YOU CAN TELL IM LOST AN I M NOT SUM LIL GIRL EITHER IM A GROWN WOMAN PLEASE IF YOUR UNDER 20 DO NOT EVEN TRY AND ANSWER THIS
2007-01-02 10:21:52 · 12 answers · asked by bay gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel trapped because you are. I was there too. Dump the guy and do not depend on him for your happiness, it will cause you to go into a cave and he will try all the harder to seclude and control you. Take the leap- I did, and found my soul mate.( after years of abuse, just because I was sticking to the known)
2007-01-02 10:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to be curious about another man,we only human.just look at your options.if it's something you want to try just tell your man that you need some space,and spread your wings a little.but if it don't work out he might not take you back.we all think about stuff like that,and i admit to it.but I'm more than satisfied with my man.only you can make that call.if your man was in your shoes what would he do ,how would you feel?I'm not telling you it's right or wrong,but it's your life ,your decision.
good luck
2007-01-02 18:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married, perhaps you need counseling, or maybe a divorce lawyer. If you're just dating, then maybe you need to cool it with this guy and date other people. If your heart isn't really with him, then don't lead him on. You wouldn't want him to do that to you now would you? Communication is the key. Don't hide or hold in feelings. Talk to him and tell him that things are getting too serious and you need for them to slow down.
2007-01-02 18:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rosepetal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like u need a lay from more than one guys. Ur hormons are still jumping up and down.
2007-01-02 18:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not ready to settle down yet. Go out and play the field and get your interests satisfied, then, when you're ready, choose one and settle down.
2007-01-02 18:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you do sound like a little girl, because little girl do not know what they want.. what am trying to say is have fun if thats what you want, but if the man you have is treating you well then, am sorry to say , but leave him before you hurt him..
2007-01-02 18:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in NO WAY ready for a relationship! I feel bad for your man, you obviously don't really love him when your thinking like that. When your in love no one catches your eye any longer just him.
2007-01-02 18:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanx for 2
2007-01-02 18:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey do what you feel. If he isn't treating you right find someone who treats you right, and you feel like the only girl in the world.
2007-01-02 18:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sercet Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say "Roll with the Homies".
2007-01-02 18:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋