Ok. I like this guy, he is whitE. I am black, and white(mixed). My skin is tan, i kind of look hispanic. I dont know why, i am DEFINATLY not racist or anything. But i have always been attracted to white guys. It has always been that way. I mean, you know once in a while, i do have an interest in black or hispanic guys, or any other race, but mostly white guys. Is this wrong? I cant control it! bUt anyways, i have noticed that the white guys in my neighborhood, always go for the all american girls. Which are white girls, brown or blond hair, light skin, you know.. I cant be white! i l love the color i am! I feel that if a guy cant accept me for who i am, then why bother? My question to you is(i really need guys answers, girls, feel free to answer also)ARE WHITE GUYS AT ALL ATTRACTED TO GIRLS WHO HAVE DARKER SKIN? TO GIRLS THAT DO NOT FALL IN TO THE "ALL AMERICAN" CATEGORY?? PLEASE! I NEED TO KNOW!
2007-01-02 10:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by Sabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you saying. Some people have a preference for different races, sometimes they are attracted to people of races not their own. I always thought it was weird not being attracted to your own race. Its less of an issue now. You will find that most guys don't care about race. You can ask some of your white guy friends what they think. Just be friends with this guy you like and see if he shows any interest. If he doesn't then you can't help who people like.
2007-01-02 10:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female but i will answer your question. It is not wrong for you to be attracted to a white man. You can not control your feelings to that extent. Girls are all American no matter the color of their skin. Whether their skin is pale-pink-beige-tan- lighter black or very dark. If you notice you find all types of people together. Like who you want to.
2007-01-02 18:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some white guy friends and they are attracted mostly to asian girls. So obviously race isnt the factor and so is the skin color. I've also seen many white guys with dark skinned girls. Don't be intimidated that you see white guys with white girls. (sorry for the race factor...) Any girl has as much of a chance with any guy. =]
2007-01-02 18:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by BLiNKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are. I am a white girl who had my heart broken by this white guy who just couldn't get into me because he like the mexican looking girls and couldn't get that out of his system. So yes, they are out there you just haven't found the right one yet. My advice to you is to just get out beyond your neighborhood if they can't see your beauty. There is nothing wrong with you being attracted to white guys or even that the white guys not being attracted to you because at the end of the day, we just can't help who we are physically attracted to. I don't think that's a choice. Just don't give up because you sound like you have your stuff together and the right person is out there just waiting for a girl like you. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 18:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no proplem with that in my family we go out with white men or white women.We get along with there family.But some white guys you have to be able to know there family first if his family gives you a look you will know that there racist. Just watch out for thoes kind of guys.OK.Ohyah Iam blake.
2007-01-02 18:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by jannetta c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can and you are right about if they can't accept you for who you are, you don't need them in your life.
And darker skin is good, too...exotic, interesting...
There's nothing wrong with who you are attracted to.
And as far as "All American"...exactly what is "All American"? You live in America? You are an American citizen? If so, you are also "ALL AMERICAN".
2007-01-02 18:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this will easy your mind, I've known a lot of hispanic girls that got white boyfriends.
2007-01-02 18:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if your skin is black,white,brown or pink. If u ike him just go 4 it. if he dont like u cuz your color than screw him!
2007-01-02 18:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by futuristic_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound pretty good to me i look a women with dark skin
and once in awhile they look back..... i would be ok with having u as my girl
2007-01-02 18:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Chirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today's society don't care about skin color and nationalities. It's about hot or fugly, and tight or fat.
2007-01-02 18:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋